Abantu zizidalwa zentlalo. Sivame ukubonisa izibilini ezizungezile.
Ngoko ukuba uzama ukulawula uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali , ukunciphisa iindleko , ufumane ngaphezulu, kwaye ngokubanzi ube yi- savvy engaphezulu kwemali , kufuneka uthathe ukhangelelwano olude, olubukhali kubantu abakujikelezile.
Ngaba isithangathi sakho sentlalo sineempembelelo ezintle kunye nemimodeli? Okanye ngaba ngabahlobo kunye nosapho bakho bakhuthaza imikhwa engempilo?
Njengaye okanye akunjalo, oonxibelelwano lwethu lwentlalo, oogxa, abahlobo, intsapho, inendima enkulu ekwakheni isimo sethu sengqondo kunye nokuziphatha kwimali.
Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba abantu ebomini bakho abaxhasekanga isigqibo sakho sokuphila ubomi obuninzi bokuhlawula ibhajethi, nakhu izicebiso ezimbalwa.
1. Khetha i-Who You Hang Hang Out
Ujwayele ukuxelisa abakujikelezile. Anditsho ukuba umele uchithe ixesha lokuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo bakho abangakhathazekiyo ngemali yabo ; emva koko, ubuhlobo bungabalulekanga.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba lixesha, mhlawumbi kufuneka ugxininise ekusebenziseni ubusuku bakho boLwesihlanu kunye nesabelo sabangani bakho abavame ukuba neendleko ezininzi.
Ukuba bonke abahlobo bakho bafumana inkonzo yebhotile yeVIP kwiklabhu yasebusuku, unokulingwa ukwenza njalo. Ukuba uhlala kunye naloo iqela labahlobo abangathanda ukufumana i-pizza efriziwe kwaye ubukele i-Netflix, ngoko uya kwenza okufanayo.
2. Phakamisa imisebenzi engabizi
Ungayichitha njani ixesha kunye nabahlobo abathanda ukuchitha? Yiba ngumntu obonisa imisebenzi.
Abahlobo bakho bangaphinda babuyele kwimigangatho yabo yokutya ekutyeleni okanye ukubetha imivalo xa kungekho mntu ucacisa enye indlela.
Ukuzithatha ukuba uthethe umcimbi ohlukeneyo kuthetha ukuba ungakhetha into enokuzonwabisa kunye nobungakanani bentela.
Ukuhamba ngokuhamba ebusuku, ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi, ukudlala ibhola ekhatywayo, ukubukela iifilikhi ekhaya, okanye ukuqhuba iseshoni kwiseseshini kuzo zonke izinto ezinokukhetha.
Njengebhonasi eyongeziweyo, unokuba wathandwa kakhulu ngabahlobo bakho kuba abayi kusayi kuba nemibono emnandi okanye imisebenzi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ube ngumququzeleli oyintloko ngaphakathi kweqela lakho labahlobo. Ngubani owaziyo ukuququza iipennies kunokubangela ukuba ube nobuhlobo obuqinileyo?
3. Fumana Umlingani wakho kwiBhodi (Ukuba Unayo)
Akukho nto inokunciphisa ibhajethi yakho ngokukhawuleza kunomlingane ongeyabelana ngombono wakho, okanye akanakuvuyela ukulandela ngokusebenza.
Ngokushukumisa lakho iqabane, uya kuzikhuthaza. Ngamanye amaxesha indlela engcono yokunamathela kwisicwangciso ngokubhala uncedo lwabahlobo bokuphendula. Akukho mntu ungcono kuneqabane lakho okanye iqabane ukuba uzalise indima.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa iqabane lakho lingenalo umdla? Mcele ukuba enze ibhodi yomboniso ukuze athole isiseko esithi "kutheni," isisusa, emva kwesi sifundo esitsha esifumeneyo. Ukuba abayiqondi umnqweno wakho wohlahlo lwabiwo-mali, mhlawumbi emva kokuba beqaphela ukuba uyaphonsa ivenkile yokuhlwaya ukuze wenze inkokhelo phantsi kwendlu, okanye uthathe umhlalaphantsi kweminyaka emihlanu ngaphambi kokuba ucebise, okanye ulahle imoto yakho kanye kunye.
Unokucacisa ukuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali alukho malunga nokuzithiba kwii-indulgences ezimbalwa. Kuthetha ngokusondeza kwiinjongo zakho ezinkulu. Ukususa i-dessert akuziveki nje ngumbingelelo onjalo xa uqaphela imali oya kuyichitha kwikhekhe leshokoledi yimali eyongezelelweyo kwingxowa yakho yokuhamba yase-Aruba.