Enye into enkulu. Okanye mhlawumbi izinto ezimbini ezinkulu. Abazali bakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufanelekile ukuba ufumane ilayisenisi yakho, abacingi nje ukuba ulungele uxanduva lokusingatha umshini weetoni ezimbini onokuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwi ...
kakuhle, ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza.
Ubahlobo bonke banemvume, ngenxa yabantwana babo abafanelekileyo , kwaye akunjalo nje ukuba ushiywe ngasemva. NgeZibhalo. Ushiyeke emva. Phola. Thatha umphefumlo onzulu. Silapha ukunceda ngeengcebiso ezincinane ngendlela elandelayo yeendlela ezi-5 zokuqinisekisa ukuba abazali bakho bakuvumele ukuba ufumane ilayisenisi yakho yokuqhuba.
Thatha iiklasi
Ukungaqinisekisi bakho abazali. Ndiyathetha ngemfundo yomqhubi kunye neeklasi zokuqeqeshwa kwabaqhubi. Ndiyicinga ukuba, awukho into esele uthathe. Kwiindawo ezininzi banelungelo, kodwa kwezinye, azinjalo, okanye mhlawumbi asinikwe. Ukuba ungabhalisela iklasi yomqhubi esikolweni, yenza njalo.
Ukuba kuphela izifundo ezizimeleyo zifumanekayo, fumana konke onakho malunga nabo (kubandakanywa intengo) kwaye ubetha abazali bakho. Qinisekisa ukuba ubonisa ukuba, kwiimeko ezininzi, ukugqiba ikhosi yezemfundo umqhubi uthetha isaphulelo kwi- inshurensi yabo.
Yindlela efanelekileyo yokubaqinisekisa ukuba umqhubi okhuselekileyo kubaluleke kuwe njengokuba kubalulekile kubo. Okona kuncinci, baya kuhlaziywa ngenyathelo lakho.
Hlawula Intshurensi
Fumana ukuba uza kubabiza njani abazali bakho ukuba bakongeze kwinqubomgomo yomshwalense wabo kwaye bafumane imali. Injongo yokufumana ukulingana, uthi, inyanga ezintathu ukuya ezintandathu zeendleko ezongezelelweyo.
Lo usebenza kumanqanaba athile. Okokuqala, isenzo nje sokufumana umsebenzi, ukufumana imali kunye nokuyigcina sibonisa umthwalo jikelele wemfanelo.
Okwesibini, yindlela enhle yokuphikisa ukuba uzimisele ukuthatha ilungelo lokushayela ngokukodwa. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, kubasindisa imali. Ndithembele kum, loo mkhulu kunokuba ucinga. Inqaku: Ukuba unako, gcina yonke loo nto imfihlo uze ufumane yonke imali efunyenwe, uze uwabethe. Abathengisi bayabiza le "ukuphucula impembelelo yakho." Kwaye uzama ukuthengisa abazali bakho ngombono wokukuvumela ukuba ufumane ilayisenisi yakho, akunjalo?
Yiba nefuthe
Ukuthetha ngokuthengisa, kukho iindlela ezimbalwa zokuba wenze ityala lakho kwilayisenisi yokuqhubela phambili kunokuba uhlanganise inxaxheba yangempela. Akukho kudlala. Beka iphepha kwiphepha yezizathu zokuba ulungele ukuqhuba. Mhle, mfutshane kwaye ukuya kwindawo. Emva koko sebenzisa i-laptop yakho ukudala imifanekiso enamandla, engeza umculo ochanekileyo, mhlawumbi nakwividiyo, njl.
Oku kunokuba kukuhlekisayo, kumnandi nakwezinye iindawo, kodwa ungabi bubuqili. Banike isethi esihle, izizathu eziqinileyo. Ngaba ufuna abazali bakho bakubone njengabantu abaqolileyo kwaye banomdla, kunene? Inqaku: Yongeza icandelo apho ucela, "Ziziphi iingxaki zakho ezikugcina ungangivumi ukuba ndifumane ilayisenisi yam?" Zama ukuqwalasela iimpendulo zazo uze uphendule iimpendulo zakho kwi-presentation yakho.
Bese uyiphakamise ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Oku kuya kubangalisa.
Nika Abazali Bakho Ingxowa
Oku akunjalo njengento engabonakaliyo njengoko kuzwakala. Cinga nje nge-bargaining process. Ufuna into (oko kukuthi, ilayisenisi yakho) kwaye uzimisele ukubanika into ngokubuyisela. Sithe sathetha i-bribe engcono kakhulu ongayinika yona, ukuhlawula i-inshurensi yakho . Kodwa kukho ininzi yabanye. Ndiza kubonisa abambalwa, kodwa andazi abazali bakho.
Cinga ngebhokisi uze uze neengcamango ezithile eziza kubakhokelela ngokukhethekileyo. Qiniseka ukuba akulona into abayilindele ukuba uyenze kakade, njengokugcina igumbi lakho licocekile, ukwenza umsebenzi wakho wesikolo, ukuhamba inja, njl. Ukuthembisa ukwenza izinto osufanele uyenze, ngaphandle kokukhononda . Kwaye ekugqibeleni ...
Yiba nomsindo
Oku kungenangqondo njengoko kuzwakala.
Kwenene. Ndincoma ukuba usebenzise le nto kuphela xa abanye abane behlulekile. Nantsi into oyenzayo. Qinisekisa ukucwangcisa yonke imisebenzi yakho yangaphandle, zonke ezo zinto zifuna ukuba abazali bakho bakufudumeze (ukuqhuba ibhola, iklasi yokudanisa, i-choir ukuhlaziya, emva komsebenzi wesikolo), ngezo zihlandlo zininzi ezingathandeki kubo. Yenza kube nzima ukuba kubekho ixesha linye into. Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva kuya kuvuka kubo: banokuziphepha zonke iintlekele ngokukuvumela ukuba ube ngumqhubi.
Iingongoma ezibalulekileyo zokukhumbuza oku. Okokuqala, khubaza, musa ukwenza into ecasulayo. Enyanisweni, yenza njengokuba uvelana neengxaki zabo kwaye ugqiba ngokuthetha into efana nale, "Gee, kukubi kakhulu ukuba andinakufikelela kule [yongeza igama elifanelekileyo apha: intlanganiso; usebenze; uhlaziya] mna. "U Okwesibini, kwaye oku kubaluleke kakhulu: Ungaze uxelele abazali bakho apho ufumene le ngcamango.