Imimiselo emibi yemali echaphazela ubuhlobo bakho
Sonke sisebenzisana nabantu abaye bazisa imithwalo yemvakalelo ebuhlotsheni bethu.
Ngamanye amaxesha, mhlawumbi sasiye saye sineempahla kwi-tow.
Kodwa ngaba uyazi ukuba ngaphezu kwemithwalo yemvakalelo, kukho olunye uhlobo lwemithwalo engakwazi ukuphosa ubomi bethu obuthandane kwiingxabano?
Kubizwa ngokuba ngumthwalo wemali, kwaye unokuba uguqa ngaphandle ngaphandle kokuyiqonda.
Khawuqwalasele ezi zinto eziqhelekileyo zemali engqondweni kunye nemikhwa engakwazi ukuxhathisa ubuhlobo.
Ukuwa Uthando Ngomvuzo Omnye / Indlela Yokuphila
Ukuba uke wakha umntu othile njengento efanelekileyo yecalingani esekelwe kuphela kwinkcazo yomsebenzi, imoto, okanye iindawo zokuhlala ezihlala zihlala zikhona, kunethuba elijongene nalo mqondo.
Kuqondakala ngokupheleleyo; sonke sikulangazelela ubomi obuphakamileyo, kwaye ukuzibandakanya kumntu obonakala ngathi "unakho konke" kunokusenza sizive ngathi sinakho konke, naye. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba umntu uwonke ipakethe yesikhokelo, akuthethi ukuba bakufanelekile.
Ukuba ufumana ukuthandana nabantu abangenalo iinjongo kunye neempawu ezifanayo onawo, zibuze ukuba ziziphi ezinye iimpawu ozifunayo kumlingane-umva wehlazo, ukuxabisa iifilimu zakwamanye amazwe. Emva koko, funani abantu abaza kujonga ezo bhokisi kuqala kunye nokushiya umvuzo njengengqwalasela yesibini.
Ndiyamthanda, Mthande amatyala am
Ewe, unelungelo lokwenza nayiphi na into oyifunayo ngemali yakho, kuquka ukuzitholela kwisikhululo seetyala .
Kodwa khumbula ukuba, xa ufumanisa umntu okhethekileyo ofuna ukuyichitha ubomi bakho bonke, eloo matyala libaxhalaba nabo.
Ukuhlawula iibhidi zekhadi lesikweletu kwijegethi zakutsha okanye izicathulo ezintle ezibonakalayo zingabonakala zingenakonakalisa ngoku njengoko uhlala njengengoma , kodwa xa udibanisa nomnye umntu, udibanisa nemali yakho .
Naliphi na ityala ozisa kulo ulwalamano lunokuchaphazela iinjongo zokuphila ezinkulu kwixesha elizayo, ekuthengeni indlu ukuba nezingane zokucwangcisa umhlalaphantsi wakho .
Ukunyaniseka, unetyala kuwe ukuba unakekele ngakumbi imali yakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba awuyi kufumana iqabane. Kodwa ukuba ufuna i-motivation eyongezelelweyo yokuqalisa, cinga ngempilo yobomi onokuthanda ukuhlala nalo mntu uphelele. Sebenzisa oko njengokuphefumlelwa ukuqala ukuqonda malunga neemali zakho.
Ukugcina amanqaku
Xa uqala ukutshatana, ukuhlukanisa ibhilikhwe okanye ukunikela ukuthabatha ithebhu yindlela enokubonisa ukuba uyayixabisa umntu onalo. Kodwa xa ulwalamano luba ngumyinge womntu obanike imali, unenkathazo.
Ubudlelwane malunga nokunikezela, ukuthatha, kunye nokwehlisa. Ukuba uqala nje nomntu, ukugcina iithebhu kuyo yonke ibhajethi ngamnye owake wakhawuleza ayiyi kwenza okukhulu ukukhuthaza ukuvakalelwa okanye ukuthandana. Esikhundleni sokuxubha ngaphezu kokuba ngubani obenxilisayo okanye obesidla ininzi yesibheno sakho esabelana ngaso, hlawula kumgaqo oqhelekileyo othi "Ndiya kufumana le, ufumana enye" ukugcina izinto ezilinganayo.
Ukuba uqhubeka kunye nobudlelwane bakho kwaye, sitsho, uhlala kunye kunye, sebenzisa inkqubo yokuba ngubani ohlawula ukuba yiyiphi iindleko zekhaya-ukuqinisekisa ukuba bobabini ebhodini kunye nayo kwaye uzive ulungile-kwaye ushiye kuloo nto.
Ulapha kunye kunye ; ukuba ngokwenene awukwazi ukuvumela ukuba izinto zokuthengisa ozihlawulelayo zihlala zibiza ngaphezu kwezinto ezixhasayo, okanye ukuba wenza imali encinci kunoko, ngoko ubuhlobo bakho bunenkinga enkulu.
Masingathethi Ngalo
Kwabanye abantu, imali iyisihloko esipheleleyo. Baza kuxubusha ngokukhawuleza ubomi babo ngokwesini kunokuba baxelele intsapho okanye abahlobo ukuba bangakanani okanye baxelele ukuba ziphi iimali zabo.
Kodwa xa ulwalamano, ukunyaniseka nokungafihli kubalulekile. Hayi, awudingi ukutyhila umvuzo wakho ngomhla wokuqala, kodwa ukuba unomdla nomnye umntu, kufuneka ukhulume ngezinto ezinjengexesha elide lemali , uxanduva lwexesha elifutshane (ngubani oza kuhlawula yintoni na?), kunye nemali yakho yonke yemali (ukuba ungumkhuseli kwaye unesigxina, uzakufuna ukufumana umhlaba oqhelekileyo).
Imiba yezezemali ikhupha izibini ezininzi. Ungafaki ulwalamano oluhle ngenye ingozi ngokulinda iimali zakho njengoEbenezer Scrooge. Ukuba awukwazi ukuthembela ngomntu okwaneleyo ukuba ube nencoko yemali, oko kungaba ngumqondiso wokuba ulwalamano aluqinileyo njengoko kufanelekile. Ngaba wena kunye nomlingani wakho uhambelana nemali?