Isikhokelo se-7-Isinyathelo sokubuyela kwi-Abazali bakho ngaphandle kokuhamba ngobuqili

by UMiriam Caldwell

Ukubuya kwakhona nabazali bakho kunokubonakala ngathi uyedwa kuphela xa ukhe ulahlekelwe ngumsebenzi okanye awukwazi ukufumana umsebenzi emva kokugqweswa kwekholeji. Nangona kubonakala kungenakulungeleka, ingaba yindlela ephezulu yokufumana ulawulo lwemali yakho okanye ukuphuma kwetyala ngokukhawuleza.

Kodwa kukho ezinye izihlandlo unokucinga ngokufuduka kunye nabazali bakho. Umzekelo, wena kunye nomlingane wakho unokukwenza ukuze ugcine imali yokuhlawula indlu . Ngezantsi, izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza ukuze uhlale nabazali bakho kulula nakubini nabazali bakho.

01 Yiba nesicwangciso sakho sokuphuma kwiindawo

Ngaphambi kokungena kunye nabazali bakho, kufuneka ube nesicwangciso sokuphuma esikolweni . Unomhla othile okanye umgomo othile oza kugqiba xa uhamba.

Ngokomzekelo, usenokufuna ukuhamba nabantu bakho de kube ufumana umsebenzi kwaye ulondoloze ngokwaneleyo idiphozithi kwihostela. Ukuba uzama ukuphuma kwetyala, icebo lakho lokuhlawula ityala kufuneka libe nomhla wokugqibela, oya kuba ngumhla okulindele ukuhlawula ityala lakho kunye nomhla okulindele ukuba uphume ekhaya lakho.

02 Misela iSivumelwano esiSungileyo

Xa ubuyela ekhaya kunye nabazali bakho, nokuba mhlawumbi okwethutyana, kuluvo oluhle ukuseka isivumelwano nabazali bakho. Unokucinga kwakhona ukubhala ngokubhaliweyo, okuya kwenza izinto zibe ziqhelaniswe kwaye ziyakunceda ulinganise ukubuyela ekhaya ngeli xesha ugcine ukuzimela kwakho.

Esi sivumelwano sifanele sichaze nayiphi na indleko okulindeleke ukuba ifake kuyo, njengexabiso elincinci lerenti, inxalenye yebhilikhi yokutya okanye izinto ezisetyenziswayo, okanye umsebenzi wendlu abalindele ukuba uncede xa uhlala khona.

Isivumelwano sifanele sibandakanye imigaqo esemiselweyo yomhlaba - njengamathuba afanelekileyo omhla wokuba nenkampani, xa kufuneka ulindele ekhaya ebusuku, kunye nemithetho esemgangathweni yokugcina iindawo eziqhelekileyo zicocekile. Ukubhala konke oku kudala kuya kwenza izinto zibe lula phantsi kwendlela.

03 Musa ukuba nguMooch

Nangona ungekho msebenzi xa uhamba nabazali bakho, ungaba yi-mooch. Kufuneka ufumane ubuncinci umsebenzi wexeshana okwangoku ukwenzela ukuba unganise kwiindleko okanye ezinye iindleko zendlu.

Ukongeza, kufuneka uzinikele ekuchithweni ubuncinane iiyure ezine ngosuku ufuna umsebenzi, kwaye usebenzise. Beka iinjongo ezibonakalayo kunye nokusebenza kwinani elithile lemisebenzi nganye ngeveki. Ukunamathela kwishedyuli efana nale kuya kukuvimbela ukuba ungangeni kwi-rut and ukhululekile ngokuhlala nabazali bakho ixesha elide.

04 Yilungiselele izigwebo zabazali

Xa usuka ekhaya ukuphuma kwisikweletu, ungamangaliswa ukuba abazali bakho bacaphuke xa uchitha imali . Khumbula, abazali bakho bazincama ukuba ube nekhaya kwiindawo zabo kunye nokuhlawula ezinye iindleko zakho, kwaye kuya kuba nzima ukugcina izimvo zabo malunga nezimali zakho, ngakumbi xa wena uvule umcimbi ngokuhamba emve Ekhaya.

Zama ukuthintela oku ngokukwabelana ngesicwangciso sakho somvuzo okanye isicwangciso sakho sokufumana umsebenzi, kunye nemini yokugqibela ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho.

05 Ncedisa Ngaphandle KweNdlu

Xa uhamba nabazali bakho, kunokuba lula ukubuyela emuva kwimisebenzi yomzali omdala kunye nexesha apho umama wakho akwenza ukuba udle ubusuku bonke kwaye wenza iimpahla zakho zokuhlamba.

Kodwa xa uhamba kunye nabazali bakho njengomdala, kubalulekile ukuba ungavumeli oku kwenzeke. Thatha imisebenzi ethile oza kuyigqiba nganye iveki ukunceda ekhaya. Oku kunokupheka ngamaxesha ambalwa ngeveki, ukwenza izitya xa uhlala ekhaya, okanye uncedisa ukucoca ngeveki kunye nomsebenzi wendawo.

06 Bonisa Abazali Benu Bahloniphekile

Bonisa abazali bakho bahloniphekileyo kunye nentlonelo xa uhlala nabo. Nangona akufanele ube nexesha lokufika njengomntu omdala, kukuhlonipha ukuba ubaxelele ukuba uya kuphumla kwaye akudingeki ukuba balinde. Ukugcina abazali bakho baxelelwe ngenye yezilindelo ezihamba nazo ekhaya. Khumbula ukuba yindlu yabo, kwaye kufuneka ulandele imithetho yabo.

Ngokufanayo, zithatha emva kwakho, kwaye qiniseka ukuba ungashiyi umtya kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo zendlu, njengokuba ubungathanda ukuba uhlala nabo.

07 Hlalani nigxilile

Ekugqibeleni, kufuneka uhlale ucacile. I-20 yakho yithuba lokuzonwabisa, kwaye ukuhlala ekhaya akuyi kuba mnandi kakhulu njengokuba nekhaya lakho. Ukuhlala ekhaya nabazali bakho kufanele kubekho ukukhuthaza ukufikelela kwiinjongo zakho zemali ngokukhawuleza.

Zama ukusebenzisa isi sicwangciso sokusindisa ukuba usanda kuphumelela kwiikholejini ukukunceda uhlale ucacile. Yenza umsebenzi owongezelelweyo xa uphuma kwisikweletu ukuze uhambe ngokukhawuleza. Yaye xa ulungele indawo yakho, ungasebenzisa ezi zicwangciso ukugcina kwirente .

Ukuhlaziywa nguRachel Morgan Cautero .