Wonke umzali uXanduva lwezeMali kuMntwana wabo
Kubazali abanomsebenzi oyintloko wokukhulisa umntwana, ukuxhaswa kwabantwana kunokuba yingxenye ebalulekileyo kwimifanekiso yezimali. Ngelishwa, akubona bonke abazali abafumana inkxaso yenkxaso-mali yabantwana bayayifumana rhoqo. Kwezinye iimeko, inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana ayizange ifumaneke nonke.
ISebe lezeMpilo laseMelika kunye neeNkonzo zoLuntu liqikelela ukuba malunga ne-114 yezigidigidi zeeRandi kwixesha elidlulileyo lokuncediswa kwabantwana lahlala libalaseleyo, ngo-Apreli 2017.
Ukuxhaswa kwabantwana abangakhokhelwa ngenye yamatyala amaninzi kweli lizwe kwaye ngelixa izigidi zedola yerhafu ziya kunceda ukuxhasa abantwana kunye nokubonelela ngononophelo lwangonyango, abazali bafanele bathathe uxanduva lomntu ngamnye. Ukuqonda xa inkxaso yezingane kufuneka ihlawulwe kwaye ngubani obalulekileyo ekuqondeni indlela yokuyifakela nokuyiqokelela.
Ngubani onyanzelekile ukuhlawula abantwana inkxaso?
Ngubani ophethe uxanduva lokuxhasa abantwana? Ngamanye amaxesha umbuzo onzima ukuphendula.
Umzali ongekho phantsi komzali, umzali ongamlondolozi womzali, obabini bezilwanyana, kunye namaxesha athile umzali ongeyena-biological ethwala uxanduva lokuba ngumzali ixesha elide ngamacandelo athatha uxanduva. Akufanele utshatile ukuba uxanduva lokuhlawula umntwana kunye nokuqhawula umlingane wakho akuyi kukushiya ngokuzenzekelayo.
Ukuba ungumzali wezinto eziphilayo, uya kufuneka uhlawule isabelo sakho sokuxhasa abantwana.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa inkxaso yabantwana iyalwe kufuneka ihlawulwe de kube ngumntwana u-18, okanye ade aphumelele esikolweni esiphakeme. Imithetho iyahlukileyo kwimeko nganye, nangona kunjalo. Kukho amaxesha okufuna umntwana okhethekileyo uya kuqhubeka nokufumana inkxaso yezingane ezingaphezu kweminyaka eyi-18 ubudala.
Ukuba umntwana uyamkelwa ngumnye umntu okanye umkhosi okhutheleyo, iintlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana akusasetyenziswa. Ukuba ngaba kunjalo, umzali ongekho phantsi uya kufuna ukucela iinkundla ukuba zikhulule iintlawulo ezongezelelweyo.
Indlela yokufakela iNkxaso yabantwana
Inkundla yenkundla iyafuneka ukuqala inkqubo yokuxhasa abantwana. Kwimeko yentsana apho abazali abangatshatanga khona, kukulungele ukufumana umyalelo wenkundla ngokukhawuleza xa unako emva kokuba umntwana ezalwe. Kwiimeko zokuhlukana komthetho okanye umtshato, umyalelo wenkundla ufuneka ngokukhawuleza. Ukuxhaswa kwabantwana ngokuqhelekileyo kuqalisa ngomhla wokubekwa umyalelo. Akuyi kubuyiselwa ngaphaya komhla wokufakela oko kungenxa yoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqala inkqubo ngokukhawuleza.
Iimyalelo zeNkundla zifumaneka kwiiNkxaso zoLuntu zaseKhaya. Unokukhetha ukuba ii-arhente zikumele, uqeshwe igqwetha okanye uzimelele. Igosa lidla ngokuba yingcamango engcono kuba ayinayo inomdla kwimeko kwaye ayiyi kuhanjiswa. Abameli bezomthetho zentsapho banolwazi olukhethekileyo kunye namava anxulumene nenkxaso yabantwana kunye neengxaki zokugcina. Ukuba ukhetha ukuzimela ufanele uqiniseke ukuba uxhotyiswe ngolwazi oluninzi ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukufumana iMyalelo weNkundla
Ukufumana umyalelo wenkundla kulula kunokuba kuzwakala kwaye kuyinto okumele uyenze ukuba ufuna elinye iqela libe nexanduva lomthetho lokuhlawula inkxaso yabantwana. Ngaphandle komyalelo wenkundla, omnye umzali akanalo uxanduva lwezomthetho kwaye nangona uvumelekile ukuba uyavuma ukuba uya kuhlawulwa, awuyi kuba nexesha elifutshane xa eyeka ukwenza iintlawulo.
Ukufumana uncedo ekuqokeleleni inkxaso yakho yabantwana, funa uncedo ngokusebenzisa i-Arhente yokuQinisekisa iNkxaso yezingane endaweni yakho. Baya kunika uncedo ekufumaneni umzali welizwe ngaphandle, banikeze abacebisi bameli beehhala kunye nolwazi lwefayili kwiofisi yommeli wesithili. Xa umzali engayikhokheli inkxaso yabantwana i-arhente iya kukunceda ukuqokelela uze ufake ifayile efanelekileyo ukuqinisekisa ukuba uhlawulwa.
Ukuqokelela kumzali ongekho phantsi kwirejista, i-ofisi yommeli wesithili sendawo iya kufaka iphepha elifanelekileyo kunye nenkqubo yenkundla.
Inkundla yakho yenkundla iya kuthenga inkundla kwiphondo umzali ongekhoyo uhlala kwaye aqale inkqubo yokuqokelela. Oku akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngoko ukhululeke ukwenza umsebenzi wakho wechungechunge ekufumaneni umzali kunye nendawo yabo yengqesho. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba kufumaneka, ngokukhawuleza unako ukufikelela kwinkqubo.
Ukuqokelela Inkxaso Yomntwana
Ukuqokelela ukuxhasa abantwana kunye nokugcina iintlawulo kubalulekile. Enye yeyokuqala inkundla inokuyenza iyayibuyisa umvuzo kumvuzo wokuba umzali awanakho ukubiza ukuba uyaphuthelwa intlawulo. Kodwa amaxesha amaninzi umzali uyayeka ukusebenza okanye ahambe emsebenzini ukuya emsebenzini ukuze aphephe ukuhlobisa kwaye kunokuba nzima ukuqhubeka ulandelela. Nokuba iintlawulo zengqesho zingasetyenziselwa ukufumana inkxaso yezingane emva koko kufuneka uhlale phezulu ezintweni kwaye uqinisekise ukuba ufumana yonke ipenki oyifaneleyo. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba ipropati ibanjwe, ingakumbi ukuba iqokelele iintlawulo ezininzi ezingabuyisanga.
Kuba umnini-shishini ilayisenisi yezoshishino okanye ilayisenisi yezobugcisa ingachithwa ngenxa yokungabikho kwentlawulo. Ukuba bafuna ukuqhubeka bezuza kwishishini labo langoku kufuneka bafumane inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana ukuze bafumane ielayisensi. Abaninzi abaqeqeshiweyo abavunyelwe ukuba benze ngaphandle kwelayisenisi yabo ukwenzela ukuba bahlale benomtsalane omkhulu wokuhlawula. Into enye umzali akakwazi ukwenza, nangona kunjalo, i-file bankruptcy ukuphepha ukuxhaswa kwabantwana .
Xa uzama ukuqokelela inkxaso yenkxaso yomntwana kufuneka uqhubeke uchukumisa kwaye ungayeki. Funa ulwazi oluvela kwimithombo eyahlukileyo eyahlukeneyo kwaye ulandele yonke into onokuyenza. Ukuxhaswa kwabantwana kukunceda ukuhlawula inkxaso yomntwana kwaye unelungelo lokwabelana kwakho. Uninzi lwabazali bazama kakhulu ukunyamekela abantwana babo, kodwa akusoloko kunjalo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ulwalamano lwakho nomnye umntwana lomntwana luphelile njani ungaziva unetyala malunga nento oyenzayo. Benendima ekukhuliseni umntwana wabo nangona bengekho ekhaya kwaye kuya kuthi ukuba baqinisekise ukuba bathatha uxanduva lwezezimali malunga nendawo yabo.