Ukukhubazeka kwabazali, iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana kunye ne-SSI
Ukukhubazeka kunye neNtlawulo Yenkxaso yabantwana
Ukuba lakho ex liyanyanzeliswa yinkqubo yenkundla ukuhlawula inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana , kwaye ngokukhawuleza uhlangabezana nokukhubazeka okuphazamisa amandla akhe okusebenza, yintoni omele uyenze?
Ngokubanzi, uxanduva lokubonelela ngenkxaso yomntwana alupheli xa umzali ekhubazeka. Nangona kunjalo, kulula ukubona indlela ukukhubazeka ukusebenza ngayo kuya kuba nefuthe elibi kumntu ukuba anike inkxaso ngenkxaso yemali ethembekileyo. Abazali abaxhomekeke kwiimeko kufuneka baqale ngokubuza imibuzo elandelayo:
- Ingaba umzali okhubazekileyo oboleka inkxaso yenkxaso yenkxaso-mali yabantwana? Ukuba umzali okhubazekileyo ufumene iintlawulo ze-inshorensi yokukhubazeka, ezinokuthi zinikezelwe ngokuzenzekelayo ngumqeshi wakhe, ke kunengqiqo ukulindela umzali okhubazekile ukuba aqhubeke nokuhlawula inkxaso yabantwana. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba iintlawulo zokukhubazeka ziya kuba ziphantsi kohlawulo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. Yaye ngenxa yokuba ifom yokuxhasa umntwana isekelwe kwingeniso yabazali, umzali okhubazekile unokukwazi ukuguqulwa kwenkxaso yabantwana ngexesha lokukhubazeka. Ukuba kuvunyelwe, oku kuya kuthetha ukuba nangona iintlawulo zenkxaso zabantwana ziza kuqhubeka, imali iya kuba ngaphantsi kokukhula kwakho ukusetyenziswa. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ulungelelanise ukufumana inkxaso engaphantsi kwabantwana. Ngelixa lusizi, oku kuyinyani kufuneka ulungelelanise nexesha lokukhubazeka kwakho.
- Ngaba ukukhubazeka komzali okwethutyana okanye okusisigxina? Ngokuqhelekileyo, inkundla iya kudlalela umyalelo wokutshintshwa kwexeshana kwengxaso yabantwana ukuba ukukhubazeka okwethutyana. Ngokomzekelo, inkundla inokunciphisa inani lokuxhaswa kwabantwana ngexesha elilindelekileyo lokukhubazeka. Ukuba ukukhubazeka kuqhubeka ixesha elide kunokuba kulindeleke, umzali onokukhubazeka angabuyela enkundleni aze acele ukuba ukuguqulwa kweentlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana kuqhubeka ixesha elide okanye nangaphakade. Inkundla iya kulandelwa ngokubanzi ukuguqulwa ngokusisigxina kwengxaso yomntwana ukuba ukukhubazeka komzali kuthathwa njengesigxina. Inkundla iya kusekela iintlawulo zenkxaso-mali yokuguqula abantwana kwiintlawulo zokukhubazeka, kunye nayiphi na enye ingeniso eyongezelelweyo eyamkelwe ngumzali okhubazekileyo. Kwezinye iimeko, oku kungabangela ukuxhaswa kwabantwana abangenasiphelo kunye kunye / okanye ukufunyanwa.
Izibonelelo zokukhubazeka zokuKhubazeka kweNtlawulo yeNtlawulo yabantwana
Kwezinye iziganeko, iinzuzo zokukhubazeka zingahle zilungiswe ukuhlawula iintlawulo zangoku okanye zokuxhasa abantwana. Nangona oku kubonakala kungalungile kumzali okhubazekile, urhulumente uthatha ngokungqongqo imfuneko yokugcina iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana rhoqo. Ngoko ke, abazali abahlawulwa ngabantwana kunye nabafumana izibonelelo ezikhubazekileyo kufuneka baqaphele ukuba inkundla inokuthi idibanise kulezo zinzuzo, ngendlela yokuzilungisa phambi kokuba zifike kuwe. Oku kwenza ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuhlawula ubuncinci inxalenye yeentlawulo zakho zokuxhasa abantwana rhoqo, kodwa kungenza kube nzima kakhulu ukufumana imali eseleyo, ingakumbi ukuba ungekho emsebenzini okwesikhashana.
Ukukhubazeka kunye neNkxaso yabantwana kubazali ekufumaneni iNgeniso yeNkxaso yoKhuseleko (SSI)
Ingeniso yeNkxaso yoKhuseleko (SSI) yinkqubo karhulumente yomvuzo ophantsi, abantu abakhubazekileyo. Ukuba umvuzo wabazali ukhokhelwa ngqo yi-SSI, ngoko ke akunakudla ngokulungiswa ngezinto ezifana neerhafu namatyala. Nangona kunjalo, kukho elinye icandelo: izinzuzo zokukhubazeka zentlalo zinokulungiswa ukuxhasa inkxaso yabantwana. Esi sisinye isizathu sokuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungabikho emva kweentlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana kwindawo yokuqala.
Uncedo lwabakhubazekileyo Abazali abanikezela inkxaso ngenkxaso yabantwana
Abazali abakhubazekileyo abanzima ukuhlawula abantwana kufuneka bafune ukuguqulwa kwenkxaso yabantwana ngaphambi kokuba bafumane umvuzo wabo. Ukuguqulwa kunokunikezelwa emva kokunciphisa ngokusemthethweni kwengeniso ngenxa yokukhubazeka kwakho. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, inkundla iya kuhlola uhlobo lokukhubazeka, kunye nobude obulindelekileyo bokungaphumeleli. Ukuba ufuna uncedo oluhamba ngeendlela, uphando ngemithetho yokuxhasa abantwana kwimeko yakho kwaye ufune uncedo kummeli womthetho weentsapho kunye namava okuphatha ukukhubazeka kunye neengxaki zokuxhasa abantwana.
Ulungiswe nguJennifer Wolf.