Unokuzihlalutya njani uluhlu olude lweendleko?
Kukho indandatho, indawo, ukutya, iintyatyambo, iimemo, ikhekhe - kwaye yinto nje yecala le-iceberg.
Makhe sijonge kuzo zonke iindleko ezibandakanyekayo emtshatweni, ngoko ke unayo ingcamango yokuba ungakanani, ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuphelisa imali.
Ingxolo
Icandelo lezinto zokugqoka "ulawulo lwesithupha" kukuba indandatho kufuneka ihlawule umvuzo wenyanga ezimbini, nangona oko kubonakala ngathi ibha ephezulu kakhulu ukudibana nayo. Nangona kunjalo, isithintelo sinokuhlawula i-$ 500 ukuya kwii-5,000 zamawaka okanye ngaphezulu.
Ugqoke
Ngokutsho kwe-USA namhlanje, umtshakazi oqhelekileyo uchitha i-$ 3,000 kwiingubo zakhe. Khumbula, ngaphezu kwengubo enkulu; unokukhetha isigqubuthelo, izicathulo kunye neendandatho zobungqina. Ezi ziyakongeza ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ulindele. (Umyeni, okwangoku, kufuneka aqokelele ambalwa ambalwa kwi-tuxedo eqeshwayo.)
Indawo
Ukuqeshisa isikhala somkhosi, isidlo sakusihlwa kunye nokufumana iindleko ezinokubangela iindleko zamawaka. Ngaphezu koko, indawo ezininzi zifuna ukuba isibini sisebenzise iinkonzo zabo zokutya okanye zokutya, ezingabongeza kwiindleko zesibini kuba zivaliwe kulezo zixabiso zokutya neziselo.
Abanye abantu, kodwa, bakhetha ukugcina imali ngokubamba umtshato wabo kumhlobo okanye kumalungu omndeni, okanye ngokugcina indawo ekhululekile okanye ephantsi kweendleko ezifana nepaki kawonkewonke.
Ukutya
Izibhengezo, isidlo sakusihlwa kunye ne-dessert zinokubiza. Uninzi lweenkonzo zesikhokhelo "ngomntu ngamnye" okanye "intloko nganye," ngoko ke abacwangcisi bomtshato ngezinye iinkhathi bacebisa iingqabane ukuba zinciphise iindleko zabo zomtshato ngokunciphisa uluhlu lwabathenwa.
Kakade, asiyisisombululo esikhulu kwizibini ezininzi ezifuna ukuba abahlobo babo kunye nosapho babe khona ngosuku lwabo olukhulu. Ezinye iindlela zokunciphisa iindleko zokutya komtshato zibandakanya ukunikezela ngesidlo se-buffet, isondlo sokuzimela (ngokuchasene nokuba nezitya zomntu ngamnye ezisebenzelwa ngu-waitstaff), ukutya ukutya kwendawo yokutya okanye ukutya okunyanzelekileyo okunjengenkukhu, okanye ukusila i-salad course.
Ngaphambili-nangemva
Sukulibala; Kwakhona kufuneka usebenze ngokutya ngexesha lokudla ngokutya kunye nosuku olulandelayo lwe-brunch.
Izimemo
Oku kungathi kungenangqondo, kodwa ngokusemthethweni "gcina amakhadi", elandelwa ziimemo ezisemthethweni, unokongeza ukuya kumawaka eedola. Amabhinqa amaninzi akhetha ukuba nomfanekiso wezithombe ze-photographer snap ukuze "ugcine ikhadi", elibandakanya indleko. Unokuyinciphisa le ndleko ngokuyila izimemo zakho kwi-Gimp, inkqubo yesofthiwe yamahhala efana ne-Photoshop. Emva koko intloko ukuya eKikoko esondeleyo ukuba uprinte isimemo sakho, okanye uthenge umshicileli ophezulu kunye nephepha elithile lesitokhi ukuyiprinta ekhaya.
Ikhekhe
Ukudala ikhekhe edibeneyo yinto enkulu yokukhangela umphangi, kunye nezibini zihlawulwa ngokufanelekileyo. Ukukhetha iibheke, ezingabizi kwaye zilula kubapheki beefestile ukuba zivelise, zingakugcina imali. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba indawo yakho ikuvumela, ungacela abahlobo bakho okanye intsapho ukuba wenze ikhekhe njengesipho somtshato kuwe.
(Musa nje ulindele ukuba "luphawu lobugcisa" ukuba uthatha le ndlela.)
Kusela
Hayi, ibha evulekile. Utywala unokongeza ngokukhawuleza. Ukuqhawula iindleko ngokunikela kuphela ukukhethwa kwinqanaba lewayini kunye nebheriya (i-brand Shadow ye-Trader Joe ye-Wine Shaw, enegama elibizwa ngokuba yi-"Buck-Chuck Two"). Ukuba indawo yakho ikuvumela, unokufumana omnye wabahlobo bakho ukuba abe yi-bartender ekhethiweyo ngokuhlwa.
Band okanye DJ
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubhala ibhendi yomculo okanye i-DJ, lungela ukuchitha phakathi kwamakhulu ambalwa ukuya kumawaka ambalwa. Emva koko, ibhanki idinga ukuhlawulela amalungu ayo kwaye igubungele iindleko zayo kunye neendleko zokuhamba; I-DJ kufuneka ihlawulwe ixesha lakhe kwaye ihlawule iindleko zakhe zokusebenza. Kwaye uya kusebenzisa umculo kunye ne-arhente yokubhuka yokuzonwabisa ukufumana it talent, eya kuthatha umvuzo.
Unokuyinciphisa le ndleko ngokubeka uluhlu lwadlalwayo lwe-iPod lomtshato wakho kwaye ubuze umhlobo ukuba abe ngumphathi wesistim somsindo.
Izipho zeendwendwe
Ngaba ufuna ukurenta idokodo yezithombe, apho iindwendwe zingakwazi ukuzithoba imifanekiso yazo? Ngaba ufuna umshini we-popcorn okanye umshini we-candy-cane? Ufuna ukunika iindwendwe zakho iintsana ezincinane zobusi njengethuba lokuthatha ekhaya? Ezi zipho zindwendwe zibiza imali enobulungisa yemali.
"Umhla-woMququzeleli"
Usuku lwaloo mcimbi ludinga ulawulo oluninzi lomcimbi. Uza kuba namava angaphantsi koxinzelelo ukuba unomququzeleli "wosuku" onokukwazi ukulawula zonke iinkalo ezihambayo ezihlukeneyo: ukuqinisekisa ukuba abafazi bazinike ukuba baya kuphi, baqondise i-videographer kunye nomfaki-zithombe, ukuqinisekisa ukuba intombazana yentombazana isendaweni .
Umfaki
Uya kufuna iimpawu eziphezulu zeentsuku zakho. Abacwangcisi bomtshato bavame ukucebisa abaxumi, kungekhona ukusika isabelomali sesabelomali ekubeni iifoto zivela kwimemori yakho. Uninzi lwezibini ze-skimp ezivela kwezinye iindawo, njengeentyatyambo okanye i-centerpieces, ukuqinisekisa ukuba unomfanekiso wezithombe ezilungileyo okanye i-videographer.
Honeymoon
I-Yep, uhambo oluthile luya kuthatha emva kokuba umthendeleko ungabalelwa kwiindleko zomtshato wakho. Cinga ngenyameko malunga nokuba unokhetha umtshato oqhayisayo okanye umhlobo osenyongweni. Abanye abahambahambayo abanomdla kwi-skimp emtshatweni ukuze bachithe iveki kwindawo yokunethezeka e-Maldives. Abanye, nangona kunjalo, baqiqa ukuba banokuhamba nangaliphi na ixesha, kodwa baya kutshata kuphela, ngoko ke bayayichaza ubuninzi bebhajethi yabo yomtshato kunye ne-skimp eluhambweni.
Imihlobiso
Ukusuka kwiintyatyambo ukuya kwiindawo eziphambili, ukusuka kumagosa e-aisle ukuya kwiibhokisi zetafile, ukusuka kwisihlalo esisezantsi ukuya kumakhadi emenyu ekhethekileyo, umtshato wakho uya kubandakanya ukutyeba okuninzi. Ufuna izibane? Amakhandlela? Ngaba ufuna ukurenta i-silverware? Kuya kuhlawula zonke
Ungayifumana njani uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali konke oku?
Luluhlu olude kakhulu lweendleko. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale uchithe imali, hlaziya olu luhlu uze ubale izindleko ngokulandelelana. Iyiphi into enye into kuleluhlu? Ingubo? Umfoto? Iholide? Yintoni into enombini eluhlu lwakho? Yaye uzimisele ukuthini ukuyeka ukuqinisekisa ukuba unokugcina imali eyaneleyo yokuhlawula izinto eziphambili?
Umntu ngamnye-umtshakazi nomyeni-bahlule ngokuhlukileyo olu luhlu ngokulandelelana. Emva koko, thelekisa amanqaku ukuze ubone indlela okuphambili ngayo.
Uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali , ngentliziyo, ubuchule bokulungelelanisa iindleko zakho nezinto eziphambili. Indlela yodwa oya kukwazi ukwenza oku ngoku kukuchazela ukuba zeziphi iindleko ezithatha isikhundla esinye kunye nokuthatha isigqibo sokuba uzimisele ukwenzela ukunikela.