Ukulungiswa kweeNkohlakalo kuyithintelo elikhulu kwiNtuthuko
Isigqibo sokukhawuleza senziwe ngesishukumiso, ngeli xesha. Kwaqala ngokulinganisa okwenze ukuba kubonakale kulungile ukuba ungalandeli isicwangciso sakho, kwaye endaweni yoko wenze into engahleliweyo. Ukuhlaziywa kwezinto kuza kwiindlela ezininzi. Nazi ezinye iindlela ezikucebisa ngazo ukuba ungalandeli isiqhinga sakho, esikukhokelela ekusebenzeni okungahambelaniyo.
Impumelelo Yakho Ngaba Ikhono Lakho Lokulandela Indlela Eqinisekisiweyo
Abathengisi bezona zinto zingabalandeli abalungileyo. Abathengisi abanokwenziwa ngokukhawuleza baye bafumana umgca kwaye bawaxhaphaza ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Akunakwenza ngokwenza izinto ezingaqhelekanga, kodwa ngokulandela indlela abaye benza ngayo amakhulu xa kungengamawaka ngamaxesha kuzo zonke iintlobo zeemeko zemarike. Zilandela inkqubo yazo kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziphi iifom entloko yazo zibaxelela ukuba benze okunye.
Omnye wabathengisi abasemgangathweni abayintloko benza ukuba abayidingi inkqubo kuba bengabarhwebi abakhulu. Bakholelwa ukuba banokwenza imali ngokubamba ingqondo, kwiingcingo zabo, endaweni yokulandela icebo eliqinisekisiweyo.
Oku kungasebenza ixesha, kodwa aba bathengi abahlali.
Kuphela kuthatha amashishini oye wenza amawaka ngamaxesha ukungena nokuphuma. Musa ukuthatha urhwebo kuba uthi: "Ndilungile, ndiyakwenza imali apha." Awunaso isicwangciso sendlela yokusingatha le yorhwebo, kwaye akukho datha ebonisa ukuba uza kwenza ntoni unophawu lobalo.
Ukulungiswa koRhwebi kwiShishini okanye ngaphezulu
Sathetha nje ngokungathengi ngaphandle kweendlela zakho zokuvavanya nokuziqhuba. Iimeko zemarike ziya kukwenza ukuba ufuna ukungahambi kulo mgaqo nangona kunjalo. Kucinga ukuba yimini ekhutheleyo kakhulu, ngokuhamba kwamanani amaninzi kunye nomthamo . Ngemizuzu embalwa yokurhweba, sele sele uthathe amashishini athile asemthethweni. Oku kungaphezulu kwesiqhelo, kodwa imarike ivelisa izibonakaliso (jonga ukuba uMthengisi weeSuku kufuneka aThwebi ).
Uqala ukungena ekhanda lakho kwaye ucinge "Lo unokuba ngumhla wokutshintsha ubomi!" Ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela ophendula ngayo loo mazwi ungathatha amashishini ambalwa aqhubela phambili kunokuba kufanelekile ngenxa yokuba ukwesaba ukuwutshaya, okanye uthatha amashishini athile azama ukwenza imali ngaphezu kweemarike (kunye neenkqubo zakho) uvumela. Ingqwalasela yakho ihambile ukusuka ekuthengiseni ukuya kwenye into. Awusayi kugxininisa ekufumaneni iisetu ezivumelekileyo, ngoku ulinganisela ukuthatha imisebenzi engaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kunokuba ufanele. Ubuhaha bakho kunye / okanye ukwesaba kuya kuqala ukuhlawula izigqibo zakho zokurhweba, endaweni yenkqubo yakho.
Usuku olunokubethisa lunokukukhokelela ukuba uthathe urhwebo, xa kungekho mthethweni. Ungazixelela wena "Ndifanele wenze into!" kwaye ngaphambi kokuba uyazi ukuba ungurhwebo olungenamsebenzi, ukugembula ukwenza inzuzo.
Gcina ugxile ekufumaneni amashishini afanelekileyo ngexesha lorhwebo. Makuyeke iimeko zeemarike kunye neenkqubo zokurhweba zakho zigqibo xa uthengisa, kungekhona ukratshi, ukwesaba okanye ukucamngca.
Ukulungelelanisa ukuhlala kwiRhwebo okanye Phuma
Zonke izicwangciso zokurhweba kufuneka zibe nephulo lokuphuma. Ukuba awukwazi ukuba uphume njani kumashishini akho ulahleke isinyathelo esibalulekileyo ekudaleni iqhinga lokuphumelela. Ukuphuma kwilapho inzuzo kunye nelahleko zithathwa, ngoko xa uthetha urhwebo kufuneka wazi kakuhle ukuba uza kuphuma njani. Xa oku kusekwe ukuba usenokuba yizibatha.
Kwizorhwebo elahlekelwayo, abahwebi baya kuvela kunye neengcamango zokuhlala kulo. Unokuzixelela ukuba "Mhlawumbi ndimele ndisebenzise ukulahleka okukhulu kuncike kwiimeko" kwaye ke uzive ulungele ukwandisa ukulahleka kwakho kokuyeka nokuthatha ingozi enkulu.
Okanye unokufumana ubungqina bokuba uvumelekile ukuba uhlale kwintengiso: "Leso sibonakaliso sisezingeni eliphezulu kakhulu ukuba ixabiso liyakushukumisela enye indlela kungekudala." Ingxaki kukuba uyatshintsha isicwangciso sakho phakathi kweyorhwebo. Kutheni uceba isicwangciso sonke xa unokutshintsha kwintando? Ukuba isicwangciso sithetha ukuba uphume, phumani, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziphi izizathu zokuphambene nompopu entloko yakho.
Uninzi lwabathengisi abatsha banenkinga yokuhlala ekuqhubeni imisebenzi. Baziva bephoqelekile ukuba bathathe inzuzo ngokukhawuleza xa kukhangela izinto kwaye ingqondo ingakumbi kunokuvuyela ukuza kulungiswa ukwenza njalo. "Awukwazi ukuphuka ukuthabatha inzuzo" okanye "Iimeko zizinzima kangangokuba ndithatha into endiyifumanayo." Kwaye nje ngokuba ungaphandle kworhwebo kunye nenzuzo encinci. Le nzuzo encinci ayiyi kwenza nto ukufihla nayiphi na ilahleko leyo eya kufikelela. Unako ukuhamba uqhekeza inzuzo xa ilahleko zakho zikhulu .
Akukho nto iphunyukileyo. Ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela kufuneka ulandele isicwangciso ngokukhawuleza. Gcinani kwisicwangciso, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni.
Ukujongana Neengcamango
Ayikho indlela elula yokunqoba iingqinisiso. Iingcamango ziya kuzama ukutshatyalaliswa rhoqo ngelixa uthengisa. Indlela yodwa yokubaphatha ngayo kukuba ungayihoyi kwaye ugxininise kwisicwangciso sakho. Abayi kuhamba, nangona kunjalo, bahlala becala. Ukuzikhusela kwakho okusemgangathweni kukuziqhelanisa ukulandela isicwangciso sakho, kwaye uyayifeza ngokugqibeleleyo naphezu kweengcamango ezichaseneyo .
Unokufumanisa kukunceda ukubhala phantsi zonke iinkcazo ezenzeka ngexesha lokuthengisa. Hamba uluhlu uze uhlaziye ngokwengqondo oko uza kukwenza xa iingcamango ezinjengelo pop ekhanda lakho. Ngale ndlela, ulungele, kwaye ukucamngcaza kuya kuba namandla okukugxotha kwinkqubo yakho yokurhweba kunye neenzuzo ezingaguqukiyo.