2 Imibuzo yokuphendula ngaphambi kokuba unqume xa ufanele uthathe umhlalaphantsi.
Uyakwazi ukuphendula umbuzo othi "nini ndifanele ndishiye umhlalaphantsi" emva kokuba usebenze indlela yakho kule mibuzo emibili.
1. Ngaba ndinako ukufumana umhlalaphantsi kwaye ndigcine ubomi obukhululekile kum?
Ngenxa yokuba usufikelele kwiminyaka yobudala kwaye unokufumana ilungelo lomhlala-phantsi okanye loKhuselo loLuntu, oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uthathe umhlalaphantsi.
Ukugcina impilo ephathekayo kuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, ukuba umhlala-phantsi namhlanje unokufezekiswa kodwa uya kufuneka uhlazise ikhaya lakho, imoto kunye nendlela yokuphila jikelele, ngaba uya kuyenza? Abanye abantu bafuna ukuba abanye bekhetha ukuhlala ixesha elide ukuba kuthetha ukugcina umgangatho ophezulu wokuhlala phantsi. Umbuzo awunako ukuba unqabile umhlalaphantsi kodwa uninzi kangakanani omele ulondoloze ukuba ube nomhlalaphantsi owufunayo?
Kuya kuba mnandi ukuba kukho impendulo elula eya kukuxelela ukuba uninzi kangakanani umhlalaphantsi, kodwa wonke umntu uhlukile, kwaye isixa esilungeleyo sakho sinokuhluke kakhulu kunomlinganiselo ofanelekileyo kummelwane wakho. Uya kufuneka usebenze ngamanani akho ukubala ukuba ungakanani umvuzo wokufumana umhlalaphantsi owufunayo. Leyo yodwa inamba ebalulekileyo.
Ukuchonga ukuba unako ukufumana umhlalaphantsi kukho amanyathelo amaninzi oza kuyidinga ukuthatha.
- Okokuqala, qi kelela imali yakho yonyaka. Faka iindleko zexesha elifana nomsebenzi wamazinyo nokulungiswa kwekhaya.
- Yongeza yonke imithombo yakho engenayo yengeniso kwimhlala-phantsi. Qinisekisa ukuba ujonga ingeniso engakumbi ongayifumana ngokubango koKhuseleko loLuntu kwixesha elizayo, okanye ulinde ukuqokelela umhlala phantsi kuze kube yiminyaka emva.
- Yiba neengqiqo malunga nokuba ungayikhupha njani imali yokugcina imali kunye notyalo-mali. Phindela kakhulu, ngokukhawuleza, kwaye usengozini yokuphelelwa yimali ngokukhawuleza. Qaphela malunga nokusebenzisa imithetho yemfundo yesithupha. Abo bahlala besebenza kakuhle kwihlabathi lenene.
- Ungabi namahloni ngokufuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe. Ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi kuyisigqibo esikhulu kwaye ezininzi izigqibo oza kuzenza zihlala zingunaphakade. Ingcali efanelekileyo yokucwangcisa umhlala-phantsi ingakunceda ukuba ufikelele kwindlela eqikelelweyo.
Ukuba uhamba ngeengxelo zakho zemali kwaye unqume ukuba awukwazi ukuhlawula umhlalaphantsi, ngoko awufanele ushiye umhlalaphantsi. Kunoko kufuneka uhlolisise iindlela zokugcina ngaphezulu, okanye ufumane umsebenzi onwabileyo ngoko awuveki njengomsebenzi. Ukuhlaziya umsebenzi wakho kunokukuvumela ukuba usebenze ixesha elide kwaye uqokelele imali oyifunayo.
Ukuba iimali zakho zixhaswe ukuxhasa umhlalaphantsi okhuselekileyo into elandelayo ngakwimfuneko yokuba "kufuneka ndikhembe umhlalaphantsi" ukuphonononga icala elincinane lomhlalaphantsi - oko kuthetha ntoni kuwe.
2. Ngaba ndiyazi ukuba umhlalaphantsi uthetha kum?
Kwabanye, umhlalaphantsi uthetha nje ukushiya umsebenzi wabo wangoku. Bakulungile ukusebenza - bafuna ukutshintshwa-kwaye ukwenza utshintsho kungafika kunye nokuhlawula umvuzo. Kwabanye, umhlala-phantsi uthetha ukuphuma ngokupheleleyo kubasebenzi.
Kubalulekile ukuchaza ukuba uthini umhlala-phantsi uthetha kuwe, kwaye ukuba utshatile, xubusha kunye neqabane lakho.
Abanye abantu abaxhomekeke kumsebenzi abakhange baqeshwe ngenxa yomhlalaphantsi. Zisetyenziselwa ukuba "ngumntu ohambayo" kwaye zifumanise ukuba zibuhlungu emhlalaphantsi. Ukuba oku kuzwakala ngathi, khumbula impendulo malunga nokuba kufuneka uthathe umhlalaphantsi ukuba "ungaze". Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe umhlala-phantsi uthathe ingcamango ecacileyo kwimiphi imisebenzi ekhuthazayo kwaye ikukhuthaze. Qala uluhlu lwezinto ezithandwayo ofuna ukuzenza okanye imibutho ofuna ukufaka isandla kuyo.
Njengenye indlela yokuthatha umhlalaphantsi wemveli, jonga iindlela ongayenza ngazo "umhlalaphantsi". Ingaba imeko yakho yangoku ihlinzeka ngomsebenzi wesikhathi sentsuku okanye i-sabbatical? Ngaba unokuthatha ixesha elide lokushiya? Ukuthatha umhlalaphantsi kukuguqula ubomi obunjengekufuduka, umtshato, okanye utshintsho lomsebenzi ngoko icebo lokuhamba ngexesha lokulungiswa.
Xa ixesha elide usichitha ukucinga kunye nokucwangcisa umhlala-phantsi kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kukwazi ukukhwaza "Ewe, kufuneka ndiphumelele ngoku!"