Nangona kunjalo, ityala labo linokuchaphazela ukuba uza kuba nefa elingakanani kubo.
Musa Ukuhlawula Amatyala Abazali Bakuba Bafa
Okokuqala, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba awunabo uxanduva lokuhlawulwa kweebhanti zabazali bakho nje kuphela xa ungayibhalanga ngemboleko kubo. Amatyala abo aya kugqitywa yi-estate yabo, oku kuthetha nayiphi na imali abanayo ebhankini, kwaye nayiphina imali ekuthengiswa ngayo kwindlu okanye iimoto ezizisa kuyo iya kuhlawula ityala kuqala. Iinkampani zemboleko zemali ziya kubhala ityala elisele. Ukongezelela, akufanele uboleke imali kubo ukuze bancede kwiimeko ezinzima.
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Okwesibini, ukuba akukho ntando, kuya kufuneka uhambe enkundleni ukuze wenze konke kulungiswe. Oku kunokuthatha ixesha elithile. Nangona oku kwenzekayo, unokuqhagamshelana nababolekisi bazali bakho kwaye unike iinkampani ikopi yesatifiketi sokufa. Oku kufuneka kumeke nayiphi na iifowuni zokuqokelela kunye nokuchithwa kwento ekhoyo ekhaya kuze kube yilapho ifa lihleli kwaye ityala lihlawulwe .
Ukuba iinkampani zokuqokelela ziqala ukukubiza malunga nokuhlawula ityala, unokuxelela ukuba awunabo uxanduva lwetyala kuba awuzange ube ngumgcini-mali kumboleko. Awunakudla ilifa leetyala zabazali bakho. Ukuba ngabazali bakho banegunya lokuthanda, oku kuya kuba yimbopheleleko yomntu ukujongana nale nto.
Igosa liyakwazi ukuhamba nawe kwinkqubo
Ubomshuwalense Wobomi Akunakufuneka Usebenziswe Ukuhlawula amatyala
Ukuba ngaba abazali bakho bane-inshorensi yobomi kwaye ungumxhamli otyunjweyo, akufuneki ukuba usebenzise loo mali ukuhlawula amatyala abo. Le yimali yakho okanye ilifa lakho, kwaye akudingeki ukuba lisetyenziswe ukulungisa indawo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba akukho mntu ufumana uxhamli kwi- inshorensi yobomi bomshuwalense , iba yinxalenye yelifa kwaye kufuneka kusetyenziswe ukulungisa amatyala phambi kokuba unako ukufikelela kuyo nayiphi na imali. Buza abazali bakho ukuba bazuze igama labaxhamli kwi-inshorensi yobomi ukuze bancede ukukhusela.
Thetha nabazali bakho ngoku malunga neemeko
Nangona ingaba yintetho enzima ukuyenza, kubalulekile ukuthetha nabazali bakho malunga noko bazinzile . Ungazicela ukuba zifake uludwe lwee-akhawunti, zombini ukugcina imali kunye ne-akhawunti yemali-mboleko, kunye nolwahlu lwe-inshorensi yobomi kwaye uvumelane kwindawo ekhuselekileyo yokugcina uluhlu. Oku kungenza ulungelelanise yonke into xa kulula kufika ixesha okanye ukuba ufuna ukukunceda abazali bakho ngemali .Ungaphinda ufune ukuthetha ngamalungiselelo okungcwaba ngeli xesha. Abanye abantu bathenga umgaqo-nkqubo womshuwalense wobomi oza kugubungela iindleko zokungcwaba.
Abanye abantu bahlawula iindleko zabo zokungcwaba ngaphambi kokuba bafe. Buza ukuba ngabazali bakho benze ntoni ukuze ulunge xa kufika ixesha.
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Ungaphinda ufune ukuthetha nabazali bakho malunga nezicwangciso zabo ngononophelo olongezelelweyo kunye noko bafuna ukuba kwenzeke ukuba abanako ukuhlala bodwa. Iingxoxo ezimbalwa ezintle zinganceda wonke umntu ukulungiselela xa kuvela iimfuno. Ithuba elona lihle lokuba abazali bakho bathenge i-inshorensi yenkathalo yesikhathi eside ebudeni babo bamashumi amahlanu, ngoko ukuba ingxoxo ngoku ikwazi ukwenza konke kulula. Inokukuvumela ukuba ulungelelanise ukulindela komnye xa kufikelele ekukhathaleleni nokwenza izigqibo zokugqibela. Ungacingi ukuba uya kuba nako ukuthabatha abazali bakho kwaye unikezele ngoncedo lwexesha elipheleleyo. Ukuba ngoku ungatshatanga, awukwazi ukuba umlingane wakho uza kuziva njani ngawo.
Ukongezelela, inokuba yinkcitho yemali ukuba awufaneleki uncedo olongezelelweyo.
Qinisekisa uxanduva lwakho lweNtsapho
Xa useneminyaka engama-20, abazali bakho basenokuhlala bekhuthele kwaye besebenza. Akunakuze ucinge ngezinye zezi zigqibo kuba ulindele ukuba baqhubeke beqhuba kakuhle iminyaka emininzi. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha ungazilindelekanga okanye unyoko okanye utata wakho unokufumana ukuxilongwa okunzulu njengomhlaza. Inokukunceda ukuba nale ngxoxo phambi koxinzelelo lwale meko ichaphazela izigqibo. Emva kokuba sele unomxholo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba imeko ingatshintsha njengoko utshata okanye iimfuno zabazali bakho zitshintsha. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba udinga ukuthetha ngokunyamekela abantwana abancinci , ezinye iimbopheleleko kunye nokulindela kwabo. Kungcono ukuba nesicwangciso esipheleleyo sendawo ukuze ufike kwindawo ekufuneka uncede ngayo ukunyamekela abazali bakho ukulungele, ingaba ngoku okanye kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini ngaphezulu.