Indlela yokwenza iSakhiwo seZindlu esiya Kuphephelela ukuQonga
Enye yeenjongo eziphambili zokudala isicwangciso sefa kufuneka kubekho ukukhupha ukulwa phakathi kwabaxhamli bakho kwaye kunoko khuthaze ukwamkela ukuba iimfuno zakho zokwenyaniso ziye zabhalwa kwaye kuza kugqitywa. Ukuze ufezekise le njongo, qwalasela ezi zilandelayo ngcebiso ezihlanu:
01 Musa ukuqhubela phambili kwiCandelo lakho leMpahla
Ixesha lokuqalisa kwisicwangciso sakho sepropati ngelixa unayo i-wits yakho ngawe, kungekhona xa kukho nayiphi na umbuzo malunga nokuba ngaba uyayazi ngokwenene oko ucinga nokuyenza. Ukukhusela umncintiswano uya kuqala xa udala okanye uhlaziya isicwangciso sakho sezinto ngexesha elicacileyo ukuba unako ukwenza izigqibo ezinolwazi kwaye uyayiqonda yonke imiphumo yezigqibo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ufuna ukwenzani, musa ukusebenzisa le sizathu. Ukwenza isicwangciso sezindlu esihlangabezana neepesenti ezingama-90% zakho zibhetele kunokuba akukho sicwangciso. Ukuphepha ukukhuphisana komncintiswano uya kukwenza malunga nokuqonda ingxaki kunye nokujongana nayo ngokukhawuleza kunokuba emva koko. 02 Hlanganisa neCandelo leNgcaciso kwiCwangciso seSakhiwo sakho
Akunamacandelwana omncintiswano, obizwa ngokuba ngulo mhlathi we-terrorem, ngumalungiselelo onokukufaka kwiintando zakho okanye ukukholelwa kwezinto zokuphila okuphephekayo okuthi ukuba ubani ubeka ifowuni inokumelana nomngeni onikezelayo kwisicwangciso sakho sempahla, ke lowo mntu unzima ukuthanda okanye ukuthembela akuyi kufumana nto kwifa lakho. Oku kunokuba kunamandla kumntu ofumana oko bakufumanisa ukuba bangaphantsi kwesabelo sabo esifanelekileyo sempahla yakho - Kulungile, qhubela phambili uze ufake ifayile, kodwa xa ulahlekelwa ngoko awuyi kuba nantoni na. Kodwa qaphela ukuxhomekeka kulolu hlobo lomhlathi kuba kwezinye iindawo, kuquka iFlorida, apho zingenakunyanzeliswa khona. Kwamanye amazwe kukho ukungabikho okungawunikezela isigatya. 03 Musa ukukhupha iSicwangciso sakho seMhlaba kodwa Musa ukuyigcina imfihlo
Ukuba ufuna ukukhupha umncintiswano oza kuthanda, hamba phambili, ziqhayisa malunga needolophu malunga nesicwangciso sakho somhlaba esicacisa ngokupheleleyo unyana wakho wokufa okanye uvale ifa lakhe ngaphakathi kwithemba lokukhusela i-bulletproof okanye ummisele ukuba angene kwi-rehab ngaphambi kokuba athole i-dime . Le nto ayiyona nto yeyona ndlela ibhetele. Kunoko, cinga ukuvumela abathandekayo bakho bazi kakuhle into oyenzile kunye nezizathu zakho. Nangona ukufihla okupheleleyo kuya kuzalisa ukudeka, ukugcina abo bantu abathandekayo bayakuqhelisa naluphi na umonakalo omkhulu. Oko ukhetha ukukwenza kufuneka kusekelwe kwinto ocinga ukuba iya kukuthintela inxaxheba kwimpikiswano yakho kwimeko ethile emva kokubonisana nommeli wecebo lakho . 04 Thembela kwiingxowa
Ukholo lokuphila olukhuselekisayo luyisithuthi esihle kakhulu sokusuka kumncintiswano oza kubakho ukususela ekubeni lolu hlobo lwenkohliso lubhekwa njengoluxwebhu oluyimfihlo olumele lugcinwe ngasese, ngelixa uthanda luyincwadi kawonkewonke enoba ngubani na ongakwazi ukufunda xa efakwe kwinkundla ye-probate. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, iindawo zokuphila eziphikisayo ziphilileyo "ziphila" ezikhupha zonke izigaba zobomi bakho - ngoxa usaphila kwaye ungenjalo kakuhle kwaye emva kokufa kwakho - ngoxa iinqununu "zifile" eziza kusebenza emva kokuba ufa. Kwakhona, qwalasela ukusekwa kwexesha lokuphila ngokubalulekayo kubaxhamli beengxaki ozoyixelayo baya kuhlutha ifa labo. Iingxowa zokuphila zingenziwa ziguquguquke kwaye zisetshenziselwe ukukhuthaza umxhamli ukufezekisa zonke iinjongo zomntu kunye neenjongo zezemali. 05 Musa ukuphosa iSicwangciso sakho seMpahla kwiDraw
Emva kokuba wenze icebo lezinto ozithandayo, ungalibali malunga nalo. Mkhuphe ngaphandle kwidrawbhu ubuncinane kanye ngonyaka, uyigqabule, uphinde uyihlolisise nayiphi na i-tweaks okanye utshintsho olukhulu. Umzekelo ohambelanayo wokuhlala phantsi kunye nommeli wakho wokucwangcisa i-estate once ngonyaka ukuba ubuyekeze isicwangciso sakho sefa sithumela isigidimi esinamandla kubathandekayo bakho kwaye kuya kunceda ukucima nayiphi na ingcamango yokhuphiswano, ngokukodwa xa ungenzi naluphi utshintsho olubalulekileyo (ewe, wayefuna ukutshatyalalisa uYohny osweleyo, akazange asebenze?), okanye wenze inkqubo ebonisa ukuba utshintsho lwakho luhlala luhlala lugqithisa iimeko zeentsapho kunye neemeko zemali.