Funda Ukungafani Okubalulekileyo Phakathi kwala maxwebhu amabini "aphilayo"
Cinga ngako ngale ndlela: Ukholo oluphilayo lubandakanya izigaba ezintathu zobomi bakho, ngelixa usaphila kwaye ulungile, ngoxa usaphila kodwa kungekho kakuhle, kwaye emva kokufa kwakho , kanti ukuphila kuya kubandakanya kuphela oko kwenzekayo ukuba kufuphi nokufa.
Yintoni Eyokuphila?
I-intando ephilayo ngumqulu ovumela ukuba uchaze iinqwenela zakho malunga neenkqubo zonyango ozifunayo okanye ongafuniyo kwimeko apho impilo yakho ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye awukwazi ukuthetha izifiso zakho. Unokuba usesikhaleni esingenakuguquka okanye unobungozi bokugula. Unokubangela ukulimala kakhulu kwaye awukulindelanga ukuba uphinde ufumane. Awusekho i-lucid kwaye awukwazi ukubonakalisa kubanonophelo bakho ngamanyathelo ofuna ukuwathatha ukuze ulondoloze - okanye ungalondolozi - ubomi bakho. Ngaba ufuna ukuba intliziyo yakho ivuselele xa iphela? Ngaba unokukhetha ukuba ungafakwa kwindawo yomoya? Intando ephilayo iyaklanywa ngokukodwa ukujongana nendlela ovakalelwa ngayo malunga nokupheliswa kokuphila ngokubhekiselele kwinkqubo yokugcina impilo.
Injongo yokuphila iyakwazi ukujongana nemiba yokunyamekela nokunyuka komzimba. Ikuvumela ukuba ubonise iimfuno zakho ngexesha lokuphila kwakho kungasongelwa kwaye ucinga ngokucacileyo - unokubonisa yonke into kwangaphambili.
Injongo yokuphila iya kubandakanywa kumyalelo wonyango ongaphambili , umqulu osemthethweni ovumela ukuba ukhethe omnye umntu ukuba enze izigqibo zononophelo zempilo kuwe ukuba awukwazi ukwenza oko. Umyalelo wonyango ongaphambili awuyiyo into efanayo nokuphila okulungileyo kuba i-life will do not name or appoint someone else to speak for you.
Ithetha nje iinqwenela zakho kwaye phantsi kweemeko zini ufuna ukuba abanonophelo bonyango bazame ukulondoloza ubomi bakho okanye ukuyeka ukunyusa ubomi.
Yintoni Ethembekileyo Kukholo?
Ithemba lokuphila lilungu elisemthethweni elenziwe ngumntu ukuba abambe kwaye anempahla yakhe emva kokubathumela kubunini be-trust. Le propati isetyenzisiwe kwaye isetyenziselwe inzuzo yomzuli - mali , ngubani othembekileyo ngokwakhe-umntu odale ithemba. Ilawulwa ngu-trustee, oqhelekileyo ngumgcini wethenda, ubuncinci xa kuthembela okuphilileyo.
Enye encinci
Ngokuphathelele ukufana okufanayo phakathi kokuthembela okuphikisayo kunye nokuphila okulungileyo kukuba bobabini banokukhusela ukukhubazeka kwengqondo. Ukuba ufanele ufike kwindawo apho ungasenanto engqondweni okanye okwazi ukukwazi ukujongana nemicimbi yakho yezemali, umphathiswa oyimbeko oye wabiza igama lakho lokuba uthembele ungangena kwaye uphathe ipropati egcinwe kwithemba lakho. Oku kwenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo - akukho mfuneko yokuba intsapho yakho ibandakanye inkundla, icele ijaji ukuba ibize umntu njengomgcini-mgcini okanye umgcini wakho wokusingatha ibhizinisi lakho.
Ukuphila okuzayo kuya kwenza into efanayo ngokubhekiselele kwinkathalo yakho yempilo, ingakumbi xa iqukwe nomyalelo wonyango ongaphambili - uyanyamekela ibhizinisi lakho kwaye unqwenela xa ungenako.
Ngaphandle koko, kukho umda omkhulu phakathi kokuba nenjongo yokuphila kunye nokholo lokuphila. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ufuna i-intando ephilayo, ukuthembela kokuphila okuphazamisayo okanye zombini, udibana nommeli wecebo lomhlaba ukuqinisekisa ukuba zonke iziseko zakho zihlanganiswe. Kukho ezinye iindlela zokudlula ifa lakho kubaxhamli, kodwa kuphela ukuphila okuya kukwazi ukubeka ngokucacileyo ukuba ufuna ukuphela kokuphila.