Uncedo lwabantwana ukusetyenzisa ukuchitha imali, ukugcina nokukwabelana ngeentsimbi
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba abantwana bakho bancinane kangakanani, akukafaneli baqale ukufundisa indlela yokulawula imali yabo. Nazi izicwangciso zokukunceda ufundise abantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 kuya kwe-6 malunga nokuhlawula isabelo sabo.
Hlela phezulu ezintathu (okanye ngaphezulu!) Iimpawu
Misa imithi emithathu - izimbiza ezibonakalayo ezinokuzibona nokuthintela-kwaye uncede umntwana wakho afake isibonelelo sakhe kulezi zimbiza. Bhala igama lemijelo "Ukulondoloza," enye yezimbiza "Ukuchitha" kunye neminye yemithi "Ukwabelana." (Unokwazi ukuchitha imini ngokuhlobisa le mijelo nomntwana wakho, ukuze umenzele ujabule ngale projekthi.)
Usuku ngalunye okanye ngeveki xa umntwana efumana isibonelelo sakhe , ncedise ukuba anqume ukuba uninzi kangakanani imali afuna ukuyifaka kwisitya ngasinye.
Cacisa ukuba intsimbi ethi "Ukuchitha" yinto yezinto ezikhawulezayo, njengebhokisi le-candy kwivenkile. (Xa usesevenkile kunye nomntwana wakho kwaye ucela i-candy okanye ithoyizi, mbuze ukuba unayo imali eyaneleyo yokuzihlawula yona. Unxininise ukuba ufumana i-candy okanye ithoyizi kuphela xa echitha imali yakhe "Ukuchitha" ibhokisi.)
Setha Ukugcina Iinjongo NjengeDolli, I-Toy okanye iMdlalo
Cacisa umntwana wakho ukuba imbiza ethi "Ukulondoloza" yinto engayifuna ukuyithenga ngexesha elizayo, izinto ezixabisa ngaphezu kwesibonelelo sakhe seveki. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomdla othile engqondweni, njengomdlalo omtsha wevidiyo, unokufuna unamathele umfanekiso welo njongo kwijelo. Oku kuya kunceda umntwana wakho abone ngeso sizathu sokuba uyasindisa.
Umzekelo omhle womgomo wokulondoloza umntwana kulo nyaka unokuba ngumdlalo webhodi, iphazili, isilwanyana esinyeneyo, okanye idonsa.
Uninzi lwale xableko lingaphantsi kwama-R20, oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana unokukwazi ukulondoloza ngokufanelekileyo kwiiveki ezimbalwa okanye ngenyanga, ngoxa ehlala ekhoneni kwi-bar.
Khumbula ukuba kule minyaka, enye iveki ivakalelwa njengexesha elingunaphakade. Musa ukumisela iinjongo ezide kakhulu kwixesha elizayo. Iinyanga ezilisithandathu zingenakwenzeka ngathi zinde ixesha elide kumntu omdala, kodwa livakalelwa ngonaphakade kumntwana.
Ixesha eli-1 lenyanga liqikelelwa ngumntwana.
Funda ngakumbi: IiAkhawunti zeBhanki zabantwana
Unokuba usenokuqwalasela ukubeka izimbiza ezininzi zokulondolozwa, ngasinye sinamaxesha ahlukeneyo. Into encinci, njenge-$ 10 ye-Legos, inokuthi ibe kwi-"iveki eveki ezimbini", ngelixa into enkulu okanye eyabizayo, njengomdlalo wekhompyutha, ingaba "kwinyanga embini".
Ukuba ubeka ezininzi izimbiza "zokugcina", fakela isithombe okanye umfanekiso wezinto ezifunwayo kwijho nganye. Umntwana wakho uya kujonga indlela esenza ngayo inkqubela phambili ekufumaneni nganye yezinto zokudlala.
Umntwana wakho uya kuba nako ukuqonda ukurhweba kweentengiso phakathi komnqophiso omnye kunye nomnye: yonke idola efaka isandla kwisigxobo sakhe se-Legos enye idola elingaphantsi ukuba inokufaka isandla kwijelo lomdlalo wekhompyutha.
Funda ngakumbi: Yenza Ukulondla ngeMidlalo kunye neMpumelelo
Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhononda ukuba "akukho mali eyaneleyo" ukuthenga zonke izinto azifunayo, mkhuthaze ukuba abeke phambili uluhlu lwakhe lokuthenga. Yifaka njengoluhlu lwemibuzo elula: ufuna ntoni na? Ufuna ntoni okwesibini?
Unokunika umntwana wakho ithuba lokujongana nemisebenzi eyongezelelweyo ngeenxa yokufumana imali eyongezelelweyo. Ngokwenza oku, umntwana wakho uya kubona ubudlelwane phakathi komsebenzi kunye nengeniso.
Musa ukulibale ukwabelana nabanye
Ekugqibeleni, masingakulibali "Ukwabelana" kwintonga. Cela umntwana wakho ukuba acinge ngabantu, izilwanyana okanye izizathu ezifuna ukuxhasa. Phakamisa iingcamango ezihambelana neminqweno yemvelo yengane yakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakuthanda izilwanyana, umzekelo, thabatha umntwana wakho kwindawo yokuhlala kwaye ucele umntwana wakho ukuba ufuna ukufaka inxalenye yesibonelelo sakhe sokutya iinja kunye neekati.
Iingcali ezininzi zemali zithi awufanele umphoqele umntwana wakho ukuba abelane ngemali; Intshiseko kufuneka ivela kuye. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ahlanganyele, kodwa makube sisigqibo sakhe.