Indlela Yokwenza Ubulumko Bakho Bokungcwaba Bwaziwa Ngabathandekayo Bakho

Ukwenza iSibhengezo esibhaliweyo soBulumko bakho bokugqibela siya kunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalabisa

Njengommeli wocwangciso lwezindlu , ndihlala ndijongana nomcimbi wokufa. Masijongane nayo, wonke umntu uya kufa, kwaye ke ndiyamangaliswa ukuba bangaphi abantu abangashiyi nawuphi na uhlobo lwemiyalezo yomlomo okanye ebhaliweyo kubathandekayo babo ukuba balandele emva kokuba behambe. Akunjalo, andiyikubhekiselele kwimimiselo malunga noko bafuna ukuba kwenzeke kwipropati yabo, ekufuneka ibhalwe phantsi kwintando yokugqibela kunye nesigidimi okanye ukuthembana okuphikisayo, kodwa luhlobo luni lwamalungiselelo omngcwabo abaya kufuna kwaye yintoni kwenzeka kwiintsali zabo emva kokuba behambe.

Ngezantsi, uzakufumana uluhlu lweengcebiso eziza kulandelwa ukwenza izifiso zakho zokugqibela ziyaziwa ngabathandekayo bakho.

Musa ukwenza Intando Yakho okanye Yithembele Indawo Yodwa Kuphela Xa Ubhala Ubulumko Bakho

Nangona ukuthanda kwakho kokugqibela kunye nesigidimi okanye ukukholelwa ekukholiseni kwindawo apho kufuneka ubhale phantsi oko ufuna ukuba kwenzeke kwipropati yakho emva kokufa kwaye ngubani omele abe ngumsebenzi wokuqinisekisa ukuba ipropati yakho iya apho ufuna ukuba ihambe khona, ukuza okanye ukuthembela akufanele kube yindawo kuphela apho ubeka uluhlu lwakho lokungcwaba. Ngoba kutheni? Kungenxa yokuba ngokuqhelekileyo ngexesha lakho lokuthanda okanye ukuthembela likhona kwaye lifundwa, abathandekayo bakho basebenzileyo zonke izigqibo malunga nesimo sendawo yenu (ukungcwaba okanye ukutshisa) kunye nesikhumbuzo, ukuba kukho.

Bhala Ubulumko bakho bokuNgcwaba ekuBhalweni okuhlukileyo kwiNtando yakho okanye ngokuThemba

Indlela efanelekileyo yokuvumela abathandekayo bakho bazi malunga nomnqweno wakho wokungcwaba kubhala phantsi uluhlu lwemigaqo ethile kwincwadi ehlukileyo kwintando yakho okanye ithemba.

Lo mbhalo ohlukeneyo kufuneka uquke ukuba ufuna umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kunye nalapho; nokuba ufuna iqoqo labangane kunye nosapho kwaye apho; nokuba ufuna ukutshiswa, kwaye, ukuba kunjalo, apho ungathanda umlotha wakho ukugcinwa okanye ukulahlwa; kwaye ukuba ufuna ukungcwatywa kwaye kuphi.

Umculi uJanis Joplin, owafa eneminyaka engama-27 ubudala, wakwazi ukuyihlaziya iya kuba yintsuku ezimbini ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe, apho anikezele ukuya kuma-$ 2,500 ukuze abekwe eceleni ukuze abekwe liqela. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuvumela abathandekayo bakho bazi ukuba udale lo mbhalo ohlukeneyo kwaye apho ugcinwa khona ukuze bakwazi ukuwufikelela ngexesha elifanelekileyo.

Sebenzisa iNkonzo ye-Intanethi ukuCwangcisa iNgqiqo yakho yokuNgcwaba

Kulo suku kunye nobudala kuninzi into enokufumaneka kwi-intanethi, kwaye oku kubandakanya iiwebhusayithi zokubhala kunye nokugcina iimfuno zakho zokungcwaba kunye nokuthanda kwakho okanye ukuthembela kunye namanye amaxwebhu okucwangcisa umhlaba . Ezinye zewebhu zizakukuvumela ukuba wenze imiyalezo eya kuthunyelwa nge-imeyile emva kokufa kwakho. Hlola Ukubambisana Kwingxenye, INgoma Yokugqibela - i-Lifebox, kunye ne-Funeral Inspirations.

Xoxa Nabathandekayo Bakho Ngomsebenzi Wakho Wokungcwaba

Ukuba ungekho ukuthatha ukubhala phantsi iimfuno zakho zokugqibela okanye ukuwabhala kwi-intanethi, endaweni yoko, cinga ukuthetha nabantu obathandayo malunga nezifiso zakho zokugqibela. Kungaba lula njengoko uthi ungayi kufuna ukungcwatyelwa, okanye awuyi kufuna ukutshiswa. Oku kuya kuhamba ixesha elide lokuncincizela uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalabisa ngexesha elinzima kwaye unike abathandekayo bakho ingcamango ngokubanzi malunga nombono onokuyifunayo kwaye awufuni.