Oko Kufuneka Ukwazi NgezoThengisa Ukuphila
Kubonakala ngathi yinto emnandi, into engenakuyenza. Ngoko unokucinga ukutshitshiswa kwabo xa ndibaxelela ukuba kunokwenzeka ukwenza izinto zokuthengisa ezithengisayo - kodwa kunokwenzeka - ngumbuzo wangempela.
Kunyaka ngamnye, abatshali-zimali abatshali, abaxhaswa yimpumelelo yabo yamaphepha , bathathe ukunyuka kokholo baze bathathe isigqibo sokuba baya kuzuza imali yabo kwimarike yemasheya. Abanye bakwenza, kodwa uninzi lwabantu luvotela iakhawunti zabo.
Ndiyazi abantu abenza iindawo zokuthengisa ezilungileyo kunye nabaye baphumelela kwiminyaka. Ndibone abantu behlala phantsi elwandle olusentshonalanga, okanye kwindlu ephezulu e-Hollywood Hills, enezixhobo eziphathekayo kuphela nekhompyutheni kunye nokuxhumo lwe-intanethi, ngubani onokwenza izinto ezivela kwiimarike. Kwaye, oko kunjalo, ukukhwela kwezorhwebo ngokuphila, inkululeko.
Inkululeko yokuba ngumphathi wakho, sebenza apho, kwaye nini, ufuna, kwaye ube nokukhuseleka ngokwezimali. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba ukurhweba ngokuphilisa ngumsebenzi onzima, ofuna isakhono esithile esithile kunye nokunyamezeleka kwengcinezelo eninzi abantu abangenayo.
Ukukwazi ukurhweba ukuphila ngokufanelekileyo kuthetha ukufikelela kwinqanaba lokugqwesa abantu abaninzi abaza kufezekisa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi imisebenzi abakhethayo.
Ukwahlukana phakathi kokubakho i-movie eyongezelelweyo kunye nomdlali we-Oscar-winning. Phakathi kokudlala kumdlalo webhola ekhatywayo kwipaki kunye ne-Superbowl MVP. Phakathi komculi weveki kunye neenkwenkwezi zamatye.
Into endiyithethayo kukuba yinto engaphezulu kwephupha kubantu abaninzi kunokoqobo, kwaye nangona andizange ndidikibise umntu ekuphishekeleni iphupha labo, kubalulekile, ukuba ufuna ukuphangela ukurhweba ukuze uphile, ungene kuyo amehlo avulekileyo.
Okokuqala, kufuneka ube neendlela zokurhweba ezizenzekelayo, osebenzisa inzululwazi , kodwa uhlala egcina ingozi njengomgaqo-siseko. Ngokufanelekileyo, le ndlela ifuneka ukuba ihlolwe ngokuhamba kwexesha, kuzo zonke iintlobo zemarike, kunye nemali yangempela.
Emva koko, ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elide ufundise malunga nantoni na into onokuyithatha ngokuthengisa. Kubalulekile ukugxininisa oku - ufuna ukuba ngumthengisi, kungekhona umtyalomali - ngoko ufumane iincwadi ezilungileyo malunga nokuthengiswa kwaye ufake iiyure eziyimfuneko ukuze uzenze ukuqonda okunzulu kwehlabathi oza kungena.
Ezezimali ndihlala ndibonisa ukuba unomvuzo onyaka owodwa wemali engenayo ngaphambi kokuba uqale. Oku akusiyo i-bankroll oya kuyithengisa nayo, kodwa imali oya kuyisebenzisa ukuhlawula iindleko zakho zokuhlala. Ukuba le nkonzo yemali izokunika ingcezu yengqondo, ikuvumele ukuba uqale umsebenzi wakho omtsha ngaphandle kwengcinezelo yokuba kufuneka uthengise "ukwenza irente."
Iengqondo uzakufuna ukuzithenga ngokwakho ukungahambelani kwemali engenakuya kuhamba kunye neenyanga zokuqala zokuthengisa kwakho.
Injongo xa kuthengiswa ngokuphila kunenjongo yokufumana umvuzo onokuthenjelwayo onokuthenjelwayo, kodwa oko kuya kuthatha ixesha lokufikelela, kwaye kufuneka uthwale ukunyuka kwemihla kwemivuzo yakho kunokuba nzima kwi-psyche, ngoko ulungele.
Kodwa ekugqibeleni inzima enkulu ekufuneka uyinqobe ukuze wenze iindawo zokurhweba eziphilayo ziyimvakalelo .
Ukuhweba, ngohlobo lwayo, kubandakanya ukulahlekelwa ngaphezu kokuwina. Umhwebi ophumelelayo uyazi ukuba baya kulahlekelwa encinci ngaphezu kwesiqingatha soshishino lwabo, kodwa ukuba inzuzo kwimisebenzi yabo yokuphumelela iya kuba ngaphezu kokulahlekelwa yilahleko.
Oku kuhambelana nomntu, apho sifuna "ukunqoba" kunokwenzeka. Ukuba awuhambelani nale ngcamango inokuphazamisa impilo yakho .
Ezi zizinye zezinto omele wazi ukuba uya kuzama ukwenza izinto zokuthengisa ezikhoyo. Yaye nangona iimeko ezichasene nempumelelo yakho, ukuba ungomnye wabambalwa abangakwazi ukuyiqonda le nto yobugcisa, kuya kukuvuza ngendlela engabikho msebenzi okanye umsebenzi ongenako.