Khusela lakho ikusasa ngezicebisi zokucwangcisa umhlaba.
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Yiyiphi inqatyana
Nangona inqaku lika-2015 lomtshato wesini omnye wawungathethi ukuphela komzabalazo wamalungelo alinganayo kunye alinganayo, kwaye abahlali baseMerika bangesabi ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa komtshato wesini omnye kuya kutshatyalaliswa. Ngaloo nto, kwinqanaba lezemfundo, kufuneka sizive sikhuselekile.
Oko kwathiwa, ininzi yemfazwe yokulingana kwe-queer iye yafudukela kumgangatho welizwe. NgamaRiphabhlikhi anemibutho eninzi kwizindlu zombuso kunye nolawulo lwelizwe lonke, kuya kuba nzima ukuqhubeka nokufana okufanayo kokuphumeza ukulingana esasinayo kwiminyaka eyisibhozo edlulileyo. Inkululeko yeenkonzo zenkolo, ukunqoba ukuqala, kunye nokuhlaziywa kolwimi oludlulileyo kumgaqo-siseko welizwe ziyimingxuma eya kuthatha ixesha elide.
Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba iibini ezifanayo zesini kufuneka ziqinisekise ukuba izindlu zabo zezemali nezomthetho zilungelelaniswa.
Kubaluleke kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili ukuba izibini ezitshatileyo zesini zesini ziqiniseke ukuba zikwiphepha elifanayo ngokwezimali kwaye zibe nesicwangciso esiqinileyo, "kusho uBrian Thompson, uMcwangcisi wezeMali oqinisekisiweyo nge-BT Financial.
"Ngokungaqiniseki kangako malunga nekamva eliza kubamba umtshato kunye namalungelo omntu, kufuneka ube nesicwangciso esiphezulu esibonisa iintsapho kunye neenjongo zakho."
Ngoko ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba umtshato wakho unokukhanselwa, unqatshelwe okanye unqanyulwe ngaphandle kwemvume yakho, kukho amanyathelo omthetho onokuyithatha ukubopha iqabane lakho ngokusondeleyo kuwe kunye nefa lakho njengokuba kunokwenzeka - njengokungathi umtshato awuyikhetho.
Uninzi lwamanyathelo lubandakanya ukuthanda kwakho, indawo kunye nokuthembela .
Ngelishwa, ezininzi izibini zesini esingazange zithathe ezi nyathelo. Ngokwe-MassMutual sika-2016 Uphando olusigxina lokuLifa, aba-6 kwi-10 yabantu abadala abanalo ukuthanda, kwaye aba-2 kwi-5 bayavuma ukuba abazange baqaphele ulwazi olubalulekileyo lwezemali, njengabaxhamli, iinkonzo zokunakekelwa kwempilo kunye neendawo zokuthanda kunye namaxwebhu okuthemba.
Nazi iincwadi ezimbalwa zomthetho kwaye uhamba unokwenza.
Abahlali abadibeneyo kunye namaLungelo okuPhucula
Beka iifayili zakho kwi-Joint Tenancy namaLungelo okuSindisa, owaziwa ngokuba yi- Joint Tenancy . Ukuqeshwa okuhlangeneyo kuthetha ukuba xa elinye iqabane lidlulayo, elinye iqabane lizenzekelayo kwaye liziphethe ngokupheleleyo zazo zonke iimpahla zabo. Oku kunika ukhuseleko lomthetho kwamanye amaqela ', njengabazali okanye abantakwabo, amabango kwifa lakho.
Ukungaphumeleli ukwenza oko kunokuba nemiphumo emikhulu kumlingane ohlala naye. Ngenxa yokuba amanyathelo omthetho afanelekileyo - kubandakanya umtshato - ayengathathwa, uTom Doyle unokukhethwa ngaphandle kwindlu yase-West Village apho yena nomlingane wakhe, uBill Cornwell, behlala iminyaka engama-55. UDoyle noConwell bahoywa ngokusayina ngokusemthethweni amaxwebhu omthetho ayenokwenzela abanikazi abalinganayo beNdlu kaCommwell, kwaye ngoku ama-Cornwell kunye ne-nephew bazama ukuthatha ikhaya labo.
Umtshato womtshato oqhelekileyo ungasindisa uMnu Doyle, njengoko umtshato wawuya kuba nawo, kodwa iSakhiwo soBumbiswano siza kuba sisigxina sokukhusela kula mabango.
Ngaba
Iqabane ngalinye okanye iqabane lifanele lenze intando echaza umnini weempahla zakho ukuba ude ude. Ngaphandle kokuba ufike kwisivumelwano esinye, iintando zakho kufuneka zizuze ifa lakho ifa. Kwiimeko ezibuhlungu ukuba nonke niyadlula okanye malunga nexesha elifanayo, zibandakanya isigatshana ngasinye somgudu , esichaza ukulandelelana kwabazuzi bafanele ukuba indlalifa yokuqala ingabi. Oku kunceda kakhulu xa udibanisa iintsapho kunye nabantwana abavela kwimitshato eyahlukeneyo.
Ukuthanda kwakho kufuneka kukhethe umphathi, mhlawumbi omnye nomnye, ukulawula okanye ukujongana nokwahlukana kweendawo zakho. Ukuba unabantwana, uya kufuna ukukhetha abazali abangewona abaphilayo njengomgcini wabantwana.
Olu luhlu lokukhusela olukhutshwayo nangona abazali abangenabo bomiyo bamkelwe ngokomthetho kwaye badweliswe njengabazali besibini kwiziqinisekiso zokuzalwa kwabantwana bakho.
Ezi nyathelo zibaluleke ngokukhethekileyo kumazwe ngolwimi lomgaqo-siseko olungapheliyo ongavumeli abantu ababini ngesini esinye kwisitifiketi esisodwa sokuzalwa.
Baxhamli
Hlaziya bonke abaxhamli kwii-akhawunti zakho ukuba zihambelane nentando yakho ngaphandle kokuba wena kunye neqabane lakho nivumelana ngenye indlela. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba izikhundla ezixhamliweyo ziza kuphakamisa intando. Lobu buchule bubamba abaninzi abantu.
Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu bangahlaziyi baxhamli njengoko ubudlelwane babo butshintsha. Ukuba ushiya umlingane wakho okanye umlingane wakho wokuqala, nokuba ngaba ngesini esinye okanye ngesini esahlukileyo, njengomzuzi kunaliphi na iakhawunti yakho, banamalungelo angokomthetho kwii-asethi kwii-akhawunti xa udlula. Intando yakho ibonisa iqabane lakho okanye umlingane wakho njengokuba indlalifa ayinakugqithisa ukutyunjwa kwamalungelo abawunikwe phambi kobudlelwano bakho obukhoyo.
Oku akusiyo inkxalabo ekhethekileyo yesondo. Iimeko ziza rhoqo eziza kugwenywa xa iqabane lomntu oshonile lihlaziya umxhamli wabo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, sincoma ukuqinisekisa nokuhlaziya abaxhamli bakho njengoko kuyimfuneko unyaka ngamnye xa ufaka irhafu yakho.
Ukwenzelwa kwabazali besiBini
Ukuba unako okanye uceba ukuzala abantwana, abazali abangenabo bomiyo kufuneka bamkele ngokusemthethweni kwaye babhalwe kwi-certificati yokuzalwa yabantwana njengomzali wesibini. Oku kunokuba ngumngeni kumabini abesini ngesini kwezinye iindawo. Ulwimi lwamanyathelo amaninzi karhulumente alukahlaziywa ukuvumela abantu ababini ngesini esinye ngesitifiketi sokuzalwa esifanayo.
Iimeko ezibandakanya abantwana zingahlawulwa kakhulu. Ngako oko, amalungu osapho esaphila yomntu womntu ngamnye angathatha ukuba zonke izinto zokulondoloza azithathwa ukuba unomdla ongcono kunomntwana omele aphakanyiswe ngabo kunokuba umntu ohlala naye esinikwa ngokwesini. Ngenhlanhla, kuye kwaba yimingeni yomthetho ephumelelayo eguqulayo.
Amadla egqwetha
Yikhethe omnye nomnye amandla kunye nezonyango zegqwetha . Amandla emali wegosa lichaza i-arhente ekujongeni iindaba zakho zemali. Igunya lonyango lommeli lichaza umntu ukuba aphathe iimfuno zakho zonyango.
Kuzo zombini iimeko, khetha i-standard standard power of a gqwetha okanye amandla angumthombo wegqwetha. Amagunya ahlala njalo agqwetha isigunyaziso ukuba isebenze ngokukhawuleza egameni lakho, kubandakanywa ukuba uba okwethutyana okanye ungenakunyameko okanye unganakulungi. Ugunyaziso oluphezulu lwegqwetha lugunyaziso xa ugqityiwe.
Amandla asisigxina sommeli agunyazisa i-arhente ukuba yenzele egameni lakho kwaye isebenza kuphela xa unokukhubazeka ngokusisigxina, njengoko ugunyazisiwe ngugqirha. Kwakhona, unqanyulwa xa usudlula.
U kuphila
Bobabini abatshatileyo kufuneka basebenzise iinjongo zokuphila . Ukuphila kuya kubeka uluhlu lweemfuno zonyango, kuquka ukuphela kokuphila-nqwenela, ukuba awukwazi ukuthetha ngokwakho. Ezi nqwenela kufuneka zibandakanye ukuba ufuna ukuvuselelwa okanye ukhethe iDNR okanye "ungaqhubeki" umyalelo. Faka iinkcukacha malunga nokusetyenziswa kwamathambo okutya, ukuphefumula, i-dialysis, kunye nokunyelwa igazi.
Njengokuba umtshato wesini ngokwawo awubonakali emhlabeni wonke, kubalulekile ukuba abalingani bobulili obufanayo baqulunqe kwaye baqhube kunye nawo maxwebhu xa behamba ngaphandle kwe-US Nangona xa behamba nge-US, kukho izigunyazo ezingazange zenze zonke izilungelelaniso eziyimfuneko ukuqonda umtshato wesini esifanayo. La maxwebhu angokomthetho kukukhusela abantu abatshatayo ngokwesini.
Njengomdla kwiqabane lakho, gcwalisa ukuthanda. Ukucacisa ngokucacileyo kwisifiso sakho sokuphelisa-bomi kuya kwenza zonke izigqibo eziphelileyo zokuphila kufuneka zenze lula lula.
Iinkcukacha zoqhakamshelwano
Nangona kunokubakho ukulahleka, yenza uluhlu lwabafowunelwa obalulekileyo kunye nolwazi lwabo loqhagamshelwano kufuneka ube ngumntu ongenakulungele okanye ongenakulungiswa. Olu luhlu lufanele lubandakanye, kodwa lungagcini:
- A magqwetha
- A magcisa
- Abacebisi ngezeMali
- Oogqirha
- Abaphathi
- Amandla ebameli
- Amalungu entsapho (umlingane, abazali, abantakwabo, nabantwana kunye nezinye izindlalifa)
U kugcina
Zonke ezi maxwebhu ezingokomthetho azincedi ukuba akukho mntu unokuzifumana. Gcina umlingane wakho kunye nentsapho yakho yongezelela uxinzelelo ngokugcina onke amaxwebhu akho kwindawo efanelekileyo kwaye ifumaneka.
Igosa likaLiz Schwartz licebisa ukusebenzisa i-DocuBank. Njengoko uSchwartz uthi, "I-DocuBank igcina ngekhompyutha zonke iimpepha ezisemthethweni nezomthetho, kubandakanywa nezikhokelo zonyango kunye nolwazi lwezokwelapha olukhawulezileyo, ekhadini ukuze zikwazi ukufikelela kuzo naziphi na iindawo emhlabeni."
Esinye isisombululo sokugcina i-elektroniki yiCarbonite yaseKhaya. I-Carbonite ihlukanisa ngokwabo kwontanga efana neDropbox ngenxa ye-encryption yona inikezela kunye nesofthiwe yayo yeCarbonite File System (CFS).
Ezi zixhobo zinceda kwiimeko xa ufuna ukufumana ulwazi kwi-fly fly, njengokuba ugqirha lwezobugqirha libuza ukufaneleka komtshato wakho wesini (kunye, ngoko, amalungelo akho ukutyelela iqabane lakho kwigumbi eliphuthumayo).
Nangona ezinye zezinyathelo ezisemthethweni esizidweliswe apha zihluke kakhulu, zinokubonelela ngokukhuseliswa kwongeziweyo xa kwenzeka umbuzo okanye umgaqo wemitshato yethu. Njengoko iCFP uCathy Pareto ithi, "Ndiyathemba ukuba awuyidingi, kodwa ukuba 'isifuba sakho semfazwe' silungile.