Ngelishwa, iindlela zendabuko azifumaneki kwizibini zesini ezifanayo ukuze zikhule iintsapho zabo, ngoko ukuqala intsapho njengesiqabane sesibini sinokubiza. Kwaye phambi kokuba ulandele iindleko zokukhulisa abantwana - ngokwe-USDA, kubiza i-$ 233,610 ukukhulisa umntwana e-US ukuya kwiminyaka eyi-18-kwaye uyithumele kwikholejini . Ngaphandle kokucwangcisa okufanelekileyo, izibini zesini esingazibandakanya ngokwazo zingabangela ingozi yemali namhlanje okanye kwikamva. Abantu abaninzi kunye nezibini ziyakwenza kakuhle ukwenza ukuhamba ngokucokisekileyo ekucwangcisweni kwentsapho ukuze bazi oko ukuzilindela.
Ziziphi iindleko ze-Queer People to Grow Their Family?
Ngokuxhomekeke kwendlela umntu okanye isibini esakhetha ngayo ukwandisa intsapho yabo, iindleko zingaqala njengento engaphantsi nje-ngokungeniswa kwe-arhente karhulumente-okanye ukudlulela i-$ 150,000, ngokugqithisa ukunyamekela.
Nantsi ukuphazamiseka kweendleko zendlela nganye.
Ukwamukelwa
Iphulo loLungelo loLuntu lithi ukuthotyelwa kwamagunya e-abucala kungabiza phakathi kwe-$ 5,000 kunye ne-40,000.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokufumana umntwana kunye neendleko ezininzi ezinxulumene neendleko ezininzi, kuquka neendleko zokufunda ekhaya kunye neentlawulo zomthetho. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba kuxhomekeke kumalungiselelo enziwe ngabaama-azalwayo, abanye okanye zonke iindleko zonyango zihlawulwa ngumzali okanye abazali.
Iintlobo zeeNkokeli kunye neendleko eziqikelelweyo | |
Ukwamukelwa kweNtloko | $ 0 - $ 2,500 + |
Ukuvunyelwa kweeNgcaciso zeeNgcaciso zeeMfihlo | $ 5,000 - $ 40,000 + |
Ukwamukelwa okuzimeleyo | $ 8,000 - $ 40,000 + |
Ukulungelelaniswa / Ukwamkelwa okungekho mthethweni | $ 5,000 - $ 40,000 + |
Ukwamkelwa kwamazwe ngamazwe | $ 7,000 - $ 30,000 |
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Iindleko zokuKwamkela ezongezelelweyo
Iindleko eziyingqayizivele kwiintlobo ezininzi zesini kunye neengcali zabo ezingekho ngqo ziindleko zokutholwa komzali wesibini. Amaninzi amaninzi akayi kuvumela abantu ababini ngesicelo esifanelekileyo ngesini esifanayo ukuba bamkele umntwana omnye. Ngoko ke, elinye iqabane kufuneka licele uncedo lomntwana, kwaye omnye umlingane kufuneka afake isicelo sokumkelwa komzali omnye wesibini. Iindleko zokumkelwa kwabazali besibili ziphakathi kwe-$ 2,000 kunye ne-3,000.
Ukuxhaswa
Kubantu abafuna abantwana be-biological, i-surrogacy ingaba phakathi kwama-$ 100,000 ukuya kuma-150,000 engama-ngamnye umntwana kuye kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lokuxhomekeka kwinqanaba elikhethiweyo okanye uhlobo lwe-surrogacy ekhoyo. Kukho iintlobo ezimbini eziphambili ze-surrogacy: i-Traditional and gestational.
I-surrogacy yendabuko ibandakanya ukungenisa umama okujoliswe kuyo okanye ngokusatshalaliswa okungekho nto okanye ukuchumisa nge-vitro, kwaye inokuthi iqule umfazi wesilisa ohlosiweyo okanye wesidoda somniki. Ukugqithiswa kokusebenza ngokuqhelekileyo kubhekiselwa kuyo ngokuthi "indlela ye-turkey baster" kunye neethagethi ezifanelekileyo ngokuphathelele iqanda lomama elincenciweyo elinesidoda esinamandla.
Ukuxhaswa kwamathambo kubandakanya ukucoca iqanda kunye nesidoda ngaphandle kwesibeleko ukuze udale umbungu, oza kutshalwa kwisibeleko sesiqhelo.
Inkqubo yaziwa ngokuba yi-vitro fertlization (ngamanye amaxesha ibizwa ngokuba "indlela ye-tube test"), kwaye ingabandakanya zombini isityalo / iqanda lomnye wabazali kunye nomniki-mali. Ngomnye we-in vitro fertilization okanye ukusatshalaliswa kwezinto zesini zesini, ubuncinane umzali omnye akayi kuba yinto ephathelene ne-biological.
Iintlobo zoLwazi kunye neendleko ezilinganisiweyo | |
Ukudlulela kwiNdabuko nge- Vitro Fertilization | $ 12,000 - $ 15,000 + |
I-Sur Surcy yeMveli kunye neNdoda yeSondlo | $ 12,300 - $ 19,000 + |
Ukuziqhelanisa noBuqu | $ 45,000 - $ 70,000 + |
Ukuxhaswa kweGestational Surrogacy & Egg Donations | $ 58,500 - $ 83,500 + |
Ukuxhaswa kweGestational Surrogacy & Donor Sperm | $ 45,300 - $ 74,000 + |
Ukuxhaswa kweGestational Surrogacy & Donor Embryo | $ 63,000 - $ 100,000 |
Iindleko ezongeziweyo ezifunekayo, ngokubambisana nesivumelwano phakathi kwabo bonke amaqela, zibandakanya i-inshurensi yokubeletha, inkxaso yengqondo kunye neendleko zokuhamba.
Ngokuxhomekeke kwiindlela ezisetyenzisiweyo kunye nezivumelwano ezenziwe, umzali wokuqala kunye neendleko zokuthotyelwa komzali wesibini zingafuneka.
Yintoni Enye Abantu Abafanele Bakwenze Ngayo Xa Kukhula Imindeni Yabo?
Umtshato wesini wesini kuphela wenziwa ngokusemthethweni kwinqanaba lezemfundo e-US ngoJuni ka-2015, kwaye imithetho emininzi nemimiselo karhulumente ayisayi kuhlaziywa. Amaninzi amaninzi awazange ahlaziye ulwimi kulomgaqo-siseko welizwe kunye nemigaqo-nkqubo yokujongana nayo yonke imiphumo yokumisela umtshato wesini esinye.
Umzekelo, kuphela emva kukaJuni 2015 kwafumanisa ukuba ilizwe laseFlorida alizange lihlaziye ulwimi oluyimfuneko ukuvumela abantu ababini besini esifanayo ukuba babe kwizatifikethi zokuzalwa komntwana omnye. Icala lafakwa kwi-state yaseFlorida, kwaye umthetho wawugqitywa.
Ngoku ngoku kunini ngaphambili, iintsapho ze-LGBT zifuna ukuxhamla amalungelo abo omzali, kwaye oko kunokuba kubiza, "utsho uElbert Schwartz, igqwetha kunye nomlobi Ngaphambi kokuba ndiyenze: Umgaqo-nkqubo weMtshato, uGay & Otherwise . "Abazali kufuneka babe nokwenziwa komntwana nangona bobabini besesatifikethi sokuzalwa, kuba abanye bathi kwaye amazwe awayi kuwandisa umtshato wakho ukuba uzuze intsapho yakho."
Imithetho iya kuhlaziywa kwaye ishintshwe ngexesha kunye nezigwebo azakufuneka ukuba zihlaziywe yonke imigaqo nemigaqo-nkqubo. Iintsapho zaseQueer zifuna nje ukuba ziqaphele ezi ngxaki.
Ukuba konke oko kubonakala kunzima kwaye kudideka, kuba kungenxa yokuba. Iintsapho ze-Queer akufanele zihambe zodwa xa zinokuziphepha. Ukuze wenze lula inkqubo, qeshisa uchwepheshe, njengommeli wezomthetho weentsapho. Uninzi lwabacwangcisi bezocwangciso zentsapho luya kunceda unciphise ukhetho lwakho lwezentsapho ukuze ulungele iimfuno zakho. Banokukunceda ukuba ujikeleze inkqubo yocwangciso lweentsapho.
Ukulungiselela Iimali Zakho Zobuzali
Ukulungiselela iindleko ezinxulumene nokuba nokukhulisa abantwana, izibini zesini esifanayo kufuneka zenze i-mind-self-mind-self.
Ukuqala, kufuneka uvula i-akhawunti yokugcina kwi-credit union okanye kwibhanki xa unquma ukuba nezingane. Ukuseka okanye idiphozithi ngokukhawulezayo evela kumqeshi wakho okanye ukudluliselwa kweemali ze-elektroniki (EFT) kwenye i-akhawunti kule akhawunti entsha. Emva koko, libale ngalo.
"Yakha kancane 'isifuba semfazwe' xa uceba ukuqala intsapho, [kwaye] yenza inxalenye yecwangciso sakho sesabelomali," uthi umcebisi wezezimali, uCathy Pareto. "Funa uncedo lwezomthetho kunye nezibonelelo ezivela kwi-GLBT okanye ezithile ze-GLBT-friendly groups of defense ezifana ne-Lambda Legal, i-ACLU kunye noNcedo lwezomthetho."
Kwakhona kulungile ukuhlawula ityala lakho ngaphambi kokuba uqalise olu luhambo - inkokhelo encinane onayo ngaphambi kokuba ube nezingane, kulula ukuba ulawulo lweentsapho zakho. Kwaye ufuna kwakhona ukuqinisekisa ukuba umlinganiselo wakho wekhredithi usemgangathweni oluhle: Ingaba uqhuba umboleko wakho kumntwana wakho, yenza ukulungiswa ukuba ulungiselele umntwana wakho, okanye ufumane umboleko wokungena kwindlu entsha kuba ufuna enye isikhala sokukhulisa umntwana, uya kufuna umvuzo omhle wokuthenga ngetyala ukuze ufumane umgangatho ophezulu.
Intshurensi kunye neNkcazo
I-inshorensi yempilo ibaluleke nakakhulu, njengoko izicwangciso zinika igalelo leendleko zocwangciso lweentsapho. Ukuba ukhetha ukwamkela i-agri okanye u-surrogacy, umzekelo, umniki-nkonzo womshuwalense wakho wezempilo unokufikelela kwiindleko ezinxulumene. Iintlawulo zihlala zincinci, kodwa kunceda ukufumana uncedo olunakho. Ukuba awuzange wenze njalo, fumana i-inshorensi yempilo , kwakhona.
Kufuneka ufumane ingcamango yokuba irhafu yakho iya kutshintsha njani. I-IRS inika iinqununu kwiindleko zonyango ezingaphandle kweefowuni ezithintela kwiShedyuli yazo A. Izibonelo ziquka ukutyelelwa koogqirha ngaphandle kweemvavanyo, ukunyamekela ukunyamekela, ukuchithwa kwee-ultrasounds kunye neeklasi zokumisela wena kunye nomama wokuzalwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba Umama ozalelwe uhlala ebomini bomntwana.
Emva kokufika komntwana, unokuqonda ezinye iintlawulo zerhafu. Ngokomzekelo, iNgxowa-mboleko yeNgeniso yeNgeniso eyafumanayo inika abo bafanele ukuhlawulwa kwentela ngaphezu kwe-3,000 zama-dollar kubantwana babo bokuqala kunye nezinye iikhredithi zabantwana abongezelelweyo. I- Child Tax Credit inganciphisa irhafu yakho ukuya kwi-$ 1,000 ngonyaka ngomntwana kumacwecwe afanelekileyo. Kwaye umntwana kunye noNondyebo wokuThatha iNkcitho unokunciphisa iirhafu malunga ne-$ 3,000 ngonyaka ngamnye ngomntwana ukugubungela iindleko ezifana nokunakekelwa kwamasango.
Ekugqibeleni, kufuneka ufumene umgaqo-nkqubo wokushiya umama wakho wokubeletha. Umthetho weNyanga yoLondolozo lwezeNtsapho (i-FMLA) usebenza-ushiye ngaphandle kwentlawulo enika abasebenzi iiveki ezili-12 zekhefu lokubeletha elingakhokhelwa, kodwa inkampani yakho inokuba nemigaqo-nkqubo yokushiya i-leave and payers yekhefu ekuboneleleni kunye nokuphakamisa umntwana wakho omtsha.